I wish I could dig out my comments about 6 months ago here when I said she will regret her actions and all her shite talk of baby's are not robots and she doesn't beleive in routine 4 kids under 6 is no joke..... Well no joke when you have to work or your husband has to work, two spongers sitting at home 24/7 shouldn't find it too difficult, so many people on here snapped at me saying oh the baby's are too young to sleep train bla bla bla..I worked in neonatal for years...sleep training isn't a military operation its something that most parents do without even realising it, that's why babies that come out of neonatal units have amazing routines and can self soothe and are such 'good babies' because the nurses have sleep trained them and trained them to self soothe, it's amazing for babies and helps their development, sleep has been proven to be so detrimental to babies development and overall mood, LJC has been bleeping around for years with her patronising 'babies are not robots' shiteShe doesn’t have to do tough sleep training though or controlled crying. I think the best place for her to start would be to get them into a proper routine of putting them down to sleep at a suitable time. They are almost one year old now, they don’t need to be up until 9/10pm+. She needs to read their cues and set an appropriate bed time along with a routine. Maybe dinner, bath, book, sleep as an example.
once she’s done that she should work on encouraging them to self settle. Putting them into their cots and sitting by them until they go to sleep and only making noise and interacting with them if they start to cry. Then once they’ve got the hang of that she should hopefully be able to put them into the cots after the routine and just walk away. Then if they wake in the night hopefully they’ll be able to settle themselves.
I know it doesn’t work for everyone, but with her having two babies you’d think she would want to try most things to get them to have a good nights sleep. I think when they are moaning about their lack of sleep, they are forgetting that the girls aren’t getting quality sleep either.
That's OK if you only have 1 or 2
Throw twins into the mix with two other lovely boys and then you've got a real problem...
Her insta in pure entertainment to me now
She is so fake
She is miserable and her and Jordan have little or no relationship at all since those babies arrived and if she got off her high and mighty horse up there in insta mum dream land..... Insta mum????? She can't even muster up the energy to do some weaning and this is her bleeping job... That's how miserable she is and how much she hates her life at the moment, imagine brands being prepared to pay you from 2000-4000 euro for ads and grid posts to show products or promote weaning stuff and you bleeping hate your life so much you can't even do that.... For thousands of pounds.....
She should have listened 6 months ago when people were trying to give her some advice and she should have sleep trained those twins and now she'd be putting them down to sleep at 7pm and they wouldn't wake until 7am most nights. She only has her patronising self to blame. I'd honestly dislike her life
She is so trapped and controlled by those kids
Give me my front line 40 hour a week government job any day and my two babies that I sleep trained who sleep 12 hours every night