I could have wrote this myself. Even with family I am always the one making the effort. A few years ago I made the decision to stop bothering and literally heard from/saw no one except my husband and people at work.I have never felt as lonely as I do now and have been feeling the same for the last 9 months or so.
No one ever seems to want stay friends with me, never make the first contact with me, never invites me anywhere. It always has to be me who texts first or asks to meet up.
One friend totally cut me off a few years ago and to this day I can’t work out what happened as she literally disappeared over night.
I don’t do anything or go anywhere apart from work and my house.
I go to bed early most nights as even my husband doesn’t seem interested in being around me.
I’m a really friendly person and love a chat and a laugh so I can’t work out why no one seems to like me.
I feel like I could’ve written this too.I could have wrote this myself. Even with family I am always the one making the effort. A few years ago I made the decision to stop bothering and literally heard from/saw no one except my husband and people at work.
I've often wondered if it's possible to fade away from loneliness? And would anyone even notice?
Don't get me wrong, I like my own company but sometimes I think I would be nice to have someone other than my husband to speak to.
I'm really sorry your going through this , as someone else has said , it's not you that's the problem. Please feel free to messege me I love to chat tooI have never felt as lonely as I do now and have been feeling the same for the last 9 months or so.
No one ever seems to want stay friends with me, never make the first contact with me, never invites me anywhere. It always has to be me who texts first or asks to meet up.
One friend totally cut me off a few years ago and to this day I can’t work out what happened as she literally disappeared over night.
I don’t do anything or go anywhere apart from work and my house.
I go to bed early most nights as even my husband doesn’t seem interested in being around me.
I’m a really friendly person and love a chat and a laugh so I can’t work out why no one seems to like me.
Pretty much a similar story to me, hard to make good friends that stick around
There's loads to see and do here , I just get fed up of doing it aloneI'm sorry your having a rough time. I don't think it's anything your doing wrong other than picking the wrong people to try and befriend. If someone can cut you off without so much as an explanation then they aren't worth another thought.
I've been in the same situation where it can feel like it's always you making the effort with everyone and if you don't no one is bothered. My advice is be good to yourself. Do things for yourself do things you love. Give it time and everyone will realise your missing stop making that effort and act like you don't care slowly you won't
Where did you move to? Is there alot to do in your area?
Stick to your new online friends then until something changes pinkyI'm really sorry your going through this , as someone else has said , it's not you that's the problem. Please feel free to messege me I love to chat too
This happens to me
There's loads to see and do here , I just get fed up of doing it alone, I wish I was the type of person who can just walk in a bar alone etc but I'm just not
I stopped being the one to initiate conversations, meeting up etc, I deleted Facebook 3 years ago and don't hear from anyone now. I don't think anyone (other than my kids and mum) would notice if I disappeared.I could have wrote this myself. Even with family I am always the one making the effort. A few years ago I made the decision to stop bothering and literally heard from/saw no one except my husband and people at work.
I've often wondered if it's possible to fade away from loneliness? And would anyone even notice?
Don't get me wrong, I like my own company but sometimes I think I would be nice to have someone other than my husband to speak to.
It sounds sad I know but sometimes coming on here and reasoning other people's opinions is a highlight of my dayStick to your new online friends then until something changes pinky
That's not good , is there something you enjoy doing ? A hobby ? I know it's so daunting doing things alone but it sounds like getting out and doing something you enjoy would really be beneficial ?I stopped being the one to initiate conversations, meeting up etc, I deleted Facebook 3 years ago and don't hear from anyone now. I don't think anyone (other than my kids and mum) would notice if I disappeared.
I've noticed my speech isn't as clear as it used to be and I don't feel as mentally sharp
No no I'm here with youIt sounds sad I know but sometimes coming on here and reasoning other people's opinions is a highlight of my day
That's not good , is there something you enjoy doing ? A hobby ? I know it's so daunting doing things alone but it sounds like getting out and doing something you enjoy would really be beneficial ?
And a brilliant distraction from the mountain of washing I have to sortNo no I'm here with you
Or the Sunday dinner you should be starting soonAnd a brilliant distraction from the mountain of washing I have to sort
I was going to go into town but everywhere so busy at the weekends So I might just stay in.No Sunday dinner here today , master of the house said he doesn't want a roast today so.....
Actually decent weather so we should really think about getting out , but I've promised I'm re decorating his bedroom so I've got walls to sandpaper and prep
Have you plans for today ?
Oh god Ikea on a weekend is MANIC takes double the amount of time to get round because you are basically walking round in a single file line.I've stayed in , sandpapered and sugar saoped wallsheight of excitement .... But a visit to ikea is imminent , now that IS exciting
No no I wouldn't dare go at the weekendOh god Ikea on a weekend is MANIC takes double the amount of time to get round because you are basically walking round in a single file line.
I can't remember what I like to doIt sounds sad I know but sometimes coming on here and reasoning other people's opinions is a highlight of my day
That's not good , is there something you enjoy doing ? A hobby ? I know it's so daunting doing things alone but it sounds like getting out and doing something you enjoy would really be beneficial ?
I'm in the same predicament , my son's dad works nights and I've no one else to look after himI can't remember what I like to doI've not got anyone to watch my girls on an evening so can't go to the local zumba or dance class etc. Might go for a swim while they are at school.
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