I would suggest she should take herself into her Instagram story archive section and go back about 3 years and start watching back all her stories so she can grasp an idea of how long she’s been in this head space & bubble. I get if she has an auto immune illness or similar but if she can go into town on a sat, if she can go out over paddy’s weekend, if she can go out foreign for a wedding, well then she can work.
the way she says something around the likes of “just trying to rest and get my energy levels back up since coming down with something a few weeks ago” - as if this is a once off
she’s truly deloulou as someone put it best above ^^
I think what’s wrong is that she lacks confidence & doesn’t want to work or is confused about what it is she wants to do work wise. I think it’s obvious she’s a bit lost & maybe a little depressed which would be totally normal if for anyone Sitting on a couch Monday to friday “chillin” it’s clear she has no intentions of getting a job.