One thing's for certain and that's Grifty is not going to change for the better. He isn't creative or clever enough to do it. He's always relied on the parents and SheHulk to bail him out and, at 30, his course is set. He'll drain them and the Doormat for as long as possible. As predicted here in a hundred different posts and a hundred different ways, the relentless day to day pressures of homeownership are far above his abilities to cope with and it all collapses without the family's help. He's no adult homeowner; he's an infantile 30 year old who wants to play video games and vacation.
Eventually, they will all panic, he will whine and
witch and moan and threaten to harm himself, and he will blame everyone else for the ever deepening hole he's been digging for himself. He wants it all, proverbially, but doesn't have the wherewithall, the courage or talent to do anything more than he is. He's a coward and a fool with expensive toys that do him little good. He's a monkey with a baton who thinks he's Leonard Bernstein.
The pressures are going to keep building quickly and without lots of help from
PleaseTakeMyMoneySusan and the Clown and SisterWife he'll desintegrate. They must all be on pins and needles to see what
duck up he working to screw up next. No little trip in Sept. is going to save this horror show and they must have sleepless nights wondering how long it will be before the next call where he threatens to hurt himself (to quote ol Susan) and/or walk out on the house and it all if THEY don't do something. You know it's only a matter of time. Off camera, their recent visit must have been a nightmare for them. They wanted him to "...do more" and "...work harder" ___ neither was ever going to happen. His focus is on grifting something for free, using Casey for free labor, money and discounts, and all the while he's drinking, driving to the parks and seething online to "own the hatters" in a futile and self defeating loop.
Oh well__ what to do?