@Anna666 My Darling sending you Hugs love and Healing 🩹Without posting a long drawn out story of my horrendous childhood with an unhinged narc mother who for some reason singled me out as the devils spawn ` should have drowned you at birth ` was her favourite saying while daily flashing a sharp meat knife in my face ` Il cut your bleeping face off `..... nothing much scares me in life, but to this day, I get triggered by big sharp knives ... my blood runs cold ... she also beat the bleeping tit out of me, again daily, fists, slaps, belts, wooden spoons, even thick branches cut from the trees in the garden, kettle cord, slippers, anything that she could grab .... she would beat the tit out of me, I could go on and on, and never stop with what she put me through, and the damage she inflicted on me .... she never once touched my 3 sisters ... they were treated with nothing but love and kindness
Michelle, yes was wrong with her actions, should have taken her frustration out another way, but trust me, throwing a pie at two spoiled brats who have been coached by their nasty, lunatic, deranged mother to play up ( not their fault ) is bound to make anyone snap ... this was not abuse, it was a moment of madness, which I would imagine she regretted soon after ..... AGAIN she was wrong, she may also have been suffering post natal depression, was in a dark place, that made her act out in anger, it does happen, I'm not excusing her actions, but know if a mother has just had a baby, has 3 other small children to care for, 2 being manipulated by their mother to be naughty, I can see how this can happen in this situation .... I could outline horror stories of real abuse towards children, that go on everyday in the UK behind closed doors, and throwing a pudding into a bedroom, while swearing, doesn't even come close to what some children live 24/7 .... both were always happy in her presence, and showed her genuine love, which leads me to believe it was a one off .... piegate wont have left scars on these kids for life ...
Their ` mothers ` behaviour over the years is another matter
I had a tit childhood my brothers did similar to me and my Mum when she wasn’t in a Valium induced sleep wasn’t the best but she Loved me
I can’t imagine how hard it must have been for you to carry that, The Little Girl you were can Heal and Love regardless
Thinking of you