I understand how you feel @SmillieKylie . It's almost impossible to keep the faith when you have no idea what's going on and if things are moving in KH's favour. The wheels are aren't just turning slowly, they're almost at full stop. I also don't understand how things didn't step up a little once the DL thing came to light, I naively thought that they would want to be seen to be doing the right thing and move things along a little to compensate. It's looks more likely that they have covered it up and are trying to sweep it under the carpet.Sadly Willow I’m at the point now that unless Skank does something really horrific and clearly dangerous, B & J are not going to be released from her feckless care. I’m dismayed to hear that B is still online posting stuff unsupervised, that girl will be targeted now, I have no doubt about that, I can’t even think about what she is interacting with, it’s shocking no one will stop this, and I include Edna in this, that woman is really pissing me off as much Skank these days, she’s the very definition of an enabler.
The children and KH have been totally failed by the system. Despite Skank clearly lying, making false claims against KH, failing to comply with authorities, allowed to take J completely taken out of education, employing corrupt Lynne Rickwood to work the system, now abandoning them for a fake relationship and endless work and pleasure trips away, leaving them with others ( unbelievably corrupt Lynn Rickwwood and Fenella at weekends by sounds of it) still they reside with her
Easter is coming, guarantee the situation will still be the same, SS have been useless, the court process, yeah I know the reasons for it, but it’s unacceptably slow and I’m at the point now I doubt they will be taken from her, despite the clear harm she is causing them. I think both have been irreparably harmed now, J turned against his father, their teenage years will be very difficult going forward whatever happens now, far worse if they stay with her. Sorry to be so bleak, people can disagree with me, but I’m just so exhausted watching on and seeing the complete failure of the system in addressing this situation and even with all the evidence against her, still nothing has changed. My patience has worn out completely now, I’m tired of wishful thinking and hopes something will happen soon, nothing changes. The Lynn Rickwood thing should have finished it, but no, we are two months into 2024 and still no change, it just ain’t happening. I hope I’m proved very wrong, but I now accept she‘s beaten the system, I just find it all so sad she has been able to do this
The only hope is now that her behaviour is progressively getting worse and the red tops are reporting on it - more pressure will come to bear on the powers that be to bring things to a conclusion. Unfortunately, I am guessing that the immense costs involved are also a fly in the ointment.
Her spite is beyond all reason now. I was hoping that with her wanting to spend time with her new egg, she would be more amenable to letting them go. It truly would be nice to see her getting her comeuppance at last instead of her constant two fingers at the system.
Hopefully the HMRC will be the ones to bring her down - soon.
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Thank you for that @DC16Both kids still love KH please know that 100% I still have hope. I know it doesn’t look that way.