Same! Had an appalling pregnancy, symptoms continued for months after the birth, which was an emergency button situation involving half the staff of the Women's and an underweight baby. A consultant has told me that there's a good chance the same thing would happen again and likely be worse and/or last longer, so like a sensible person, I'm one and done. I've had a handful of people try to provide me with their opinions about how I should have another, and I just shut it down quick - if they keep up I offer to get into the gory details of the last pregnancy, which I find a good conversation ender
no need to go on extended rants about how people shouldn't ask these questions, I mean, no, probably they shouldn't, but old KHM needs to learn that she can't control what other people do, she can only control how she reacts to it.