In some small defence of Kate, I think there’s a difference between leaving Noa with someone she knows will look after her, compared to Noa being left on her own whilst she showers. Even if it is only for a matter of minutes. That said, I have no idea why she’s not utilising her time with Boj there so she can shower in the mornings or evenings.
I hated motherhood when my daughter was born. To the point that I cut short my planned extended 12 months maternity leave and returned as soon as she took a bottle at 10 months. So I can see some of myself in Kate. If someone offered me a night nurse and some days away from the baby I would have bitten their hand off
As an aside, does anyone else hate watching Instagram stories of people eating? I watched Boj’s mum lick that butter knife then put it back in the butter and I cringed.