Coconutclub
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My theory (for what its worth) is this - Kate is a little on the arrogant side and prone to dramatic retelling of events. I think the doctor that told her to go home spend time with your daughter and drink wine, may have said that as part of a longer conversation. Lots of cancer patients get told these types of things for their own sake, most experienced medical staff won't give false hope and see that as unkind. They, more than most of the general public, will have seen first hand the regrets people have when faced with death - plenty of them will have wished they had spent more time with loved ones; they probably encouraged this and I would bet she was already talking about alternative opinions and cures and that person was trying to sway her away from that. As we have seen those 'protocols' are time (and financially) consuming. Kate likes to see herself as a person that is in charge and won't take no for an answer (slightly arrogant) and now reframes that conversation as just that 'I was told to go home, drink wine and die.' I would not put it past her to have chosen the shorter of the timeframes given to length of life for a more dramatic retelling. As I said before Alectinib shows amazing results in some patients and I think it did in her, as she was healthy and possibly some of the alternative therapies and diet helped that response to the drug.Oh yes this is so true! BUT when she was first diagnosed she said she was only given a short time? So she in essence was dying but then miraculously had 7 clear scans? I don't know, I'm not saying she's not sick but there are certainly inconsistencies which make people doubt everything.
Scans not showing disease are not uncommon, I have a friend that had this and then it came back with a vengence and she was dead the following year. Bowel Babe (Deborah James) also had a clear scan with NED after a terminal diagnosis, but she died just over a year later. Cancer is a fucker - scans show changes constantly and healthy, young people can give it a good fight, which is why the figures they give you for how long you have left (only based on statistics) vary and why life insurance pays out on any stage 4 diagnosis. I think she has been experiencing all of the normal ups and downs of 'living' with cancer, but wants it to be her that made the difference -arrogance again - SHE put in the effort and the work so everything is down to her decision not to die. This gives hope to other people in the wellness space and makes her popular (and makes her money) H4C also need her publicity and so she keeps up the exagerations and neglects certain parts of her story that don't fit that narrative.
I also think H4C are complete charlatans and have enabled her delusions and arrogance and tell her any improvment, good scan, is down to them - she says herself that she choses to know nothing about cancer and has no family history or experience of it. So I think she believes the way that she looks healthy and doesn't feel ill is beacuse she is curing herself. If she had had an experience of cancer that some people on this forum, myself unfortunately included, she might realise that this would probably have played out this way anyway if she'd just gone to the hospital in Aus and saved herself (her daughter) the money.
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Thank you - I am well now as far as I know xThis is so well said. I think people think cancer diagnosis = dying, moving towards dying/very sick. Which can be the case. But the reality is in many cases, diagnosis = commence treatment options and continue to LIVE with cancer. So the way she looks is kinda irrelevant in terms of her health, but super relevant in terms of opportunities to grift/fund raise and so on. I too think she has a diagnosis and the chemo drug is keeping it at bay. I wish these clinics existed to give cancer patients a lovely holiday during or in between treatments- not a false hope.
I hope so much that you are now well OP