I was really 100% only trying to avoid saying «I don’t think this is right to say cause I personally disagree» cause there is always a mod that somehow thinks this means you are trying to moderate the discussion rather than - well basically *having a discussion*. By using examples from our own life I try to mitiage this reaction. I am in no way trying to gloat, our life is in best case average (EDIT: although I am very proud of our garden!!
). But it probably comes quite wrong over, my english is in no way good because of reasons I will now NOT mention cause it would probably be taken in the most wrong way possible
I still see many (also outside this thread) comments about what girls and boys should wear, how their hair should be, and other old fashioned opinions on genders around this board. So I have to disagree, saying that a girl «finally looks like a girl» because of a dress, despite her wearing pink, purple and rainbow-printed supergirly clothes several times, is not coming over as especially gender-progressive. Nor people saying «they prefer» a stranger’s baby girl with «more feminine clothes».
And now I will read «Julian is a mermaid» to my kid for the evening and let the case float away. Hopefully this insanely boring week of her ITS-release is soon over so there can be more stupid
tit being posted from Jayjay and Ceecee to tattle about.