HOW MANY WEEKS IN OUR LIFE ARE THEY PLANNING duck my life! What a pair of boring young pensioners ffs. They’re not even 30!
I mean the fact that you are talking about a case where a baby was killed or died, and relating this to the way carys treats Amber, IS you making comparisons. It’s a terrible leap to make.I know it's quite a dark subject, but I remember that British Nanny who worked for a couple in the States about 20-25 years ago. The young baby sadly died whilst in her care, I can't remember the total outcome of the court case, but the Woman ended up back in Britain not long after. The couple's lawyer accused her of shaking the baby & I remember an expert on TV talking about aspects of that case, saying how you have to be so careful with rough play in the first 12-18 months. I am no way making any comparisons with Carys, but the aggressive way she sometimes shakes Amber about on her tummy makes me feel so weird and uneasy. She's a little baby Carys, you can't shake her in jest like you can with Mila.
It is not a comparison. Or a leap. I would be off my head to suggest such a thing. Apologies for the way it may have come across.I mean the fact that you are talking about a case where a baby was killed or died, and relating this to the way carys treats Amber, IS you making comparisons. It’s a terrible leap to make.
The way she says ‘I’ve always wanted to share this’ as though she’s been building up to this moment. Such innane drivel.
It's Louise Woodward, the case you're referring too. I remember this being one of the first times I really noticed a big news story and it always terrified me because she was only 18 or 19 at the time and the conflicting stories were scary- the prosecutors said she shook the baby, some people said the parents caused the injuries before they hired the nanny, others said that she was totally inexperienced and the parents should never have let her near their child. And she said she didn't do anything at all. I think she got found guilty but the appeal let her out not long after and said that it was most likely an accident (I think?). They used to have those chat debate things on morning shows about shaking babies and being careful with them, and I think that really stuck with me because I had always loved kids and had lots of younger siblings and I became really nervous around them in case I accidentally hurt one.It is not a comparison. Or a leap. I would be off my head to suggest such a thing. Apologies for the way it may have come across.
All I was saying is that babies are fragile & that news story that I heard as a child stuck with me all the way through to adulthood and having my own kids. In my area the subject came up in our NCT Class of skeletal development etc and they went into a lot of detail about things relative to that in terms of handling, holding and early development.
How many times has someone commented in frustration that she's *maybe* a little too full on when she pokes/moves/wiggles Amber about?
Do I think she's capable of a heinous crime? Absolutely Not. Am I comparing her to someone accused of a crime? No. Am I expressing a concern about the way she sometimes prods and pokes Amber for content material because the poor little mite is still only a few months old and feel (as others have expressed numerous times on here) that the prodding/poking is uncomfortable to watch and could be unecessarily uncomfortable for Amber? Yes.
This was a massive story when I was younger! I remember it well! I don’t think the comparison is even close in terms of that situation although I do understand what the intention was with the story in terms of her being rough, I will say though, I’m not experienced around babies or have any clue what to do with them but I referent went to visit my bfs new baby, he’s 12 weeks old and I was scared shitless about hurting him but his mum told me not to worry, he was a lot less delicate than he looked! Not saying you should be rough with babies but I think I’ve always assumed you have to treat them like a feather to some extent and I think I’ve always been very over cautious! Lol! He was a LOT tougher and stronger than I was expecting! I just find the way she treats Amber strange, like she is petting/tickling her dog :/ I do the same tummy rubs to my parents puppy but I would never do that to a baby :/ it’s weird and seems very forced to me like all her interactions with her, Elle is much more of a natural from what I’ve seen!!!It's Louise Woodward, the case you're referring too. I remember this being one of the first times I really noticed a big news story and it always terrified me because she was only 18 or 19 at the time and the conflicting stories were scary- the prosecutors said she shook the baby, some people said the parents caused the injuries before they hired the nanny, others said that she was totally inexperienced and the parents should never have let her near their child. And she said she didn't do anything at all. I think she got found guilty but the appeal let her out not long after and said that it was most likely an accident (I think?). They used to have those chat debate things on morning shows about shaking babies and being careful with them, and I think that really stuck with me because I had always loved kids and had lots of younger siblings and I became really nervous around them in case I accidentally hurt one.
Don't worry, I don't think it sounded like you were making comparisons. It was more of PSA that bad things can happen because babies are delicate.
wasn’t she from cheshire? i vaguely remember her trying to set up a zumba/fitness class in my village n everyone kicking offIt's Louise Woodward, the case you're referring too. I remember this being one of the first times I really noticed a big news story and it always terrified me because she was only 18 or 19 at the time and the conflicting stories were scary- the prosecutors said she shook the baby, some people said the parents caused the injuries before they hired the nanny, others said that she was totally inexperienced and the parents should never have let her near their child. And she said she didn't do anything at all. I think she got found guilty but the appeal let her out not long after and said that it was most likely an accident (I think?). They used to have those chat debate things on morning shows about shaking babies and being careful with them, and I think that really stuck with me because I had always loved kids and had lots of younger siblings and I became really nervous around them in case I accidentally hurt one.
Don't worry, I don't think it sounded like you were making comparisons. It was more of PSA that bad things can happen because babies are delicate.
Carys is welsh and from Cardiff, Carys is seeing that Amber is growing and still Carys is smothing her and using her for likes and views.Where is OhSoFemme from? I know she's Irish but what County or Town?
Sorry for the unrelated question
That sounds really familiar, I think you're right.wasn’t she from cheshire? i vaguely remember her trying to set up a zumba/fitness class in my village n everyone kicking off
that pisses me of too!! its so annoying!Just watched the new vlog, and how many times does she interrupts herself to shout "ELLO" or "WOOW" to amber? It's so annoying. Why don't she just talk to her in a normal voice? Maybe it's just me, but I'm so sick of the screaming "ELLO" at Amber every time she sees her
it's so annoying isn't it. sick of 'ELLO, are you going to say hi, hi hi hi, WOOOW, and can you clap your hands while poking, petting and tickling herJust watched the new vlog, and how many times does she interrupts herself to shout "ELLO" or "WOOW" to amber? It's so annoying. Why don't she just talk to her in a normal voice? Maybe it's just me, but I'm so sick of the screaming "ELLO" at Amber every time she sees her
its all just so forced and to much.it's so annoying isn't it. sick of 'ELLO, are you going to say hi, hi hi hi, WOOOW, and can you clap your hands while poking, petting and tickling her
They get hundreds of applications for being a nudie so I don’t think Sophie would hand over a place to Carys for it. Anyone who’s ever bought anything got special access to tickets so they could have gone to the event.I don't think Cary's is body positive and confident enough to do the Sophie Tea thing.
I just always hate that she says she doesn't miss her old body because she is the happiest she's been in life right now. I am happiest right now since I've had my baby, among other reasons in my life too. But I still look at my body and hate it, it doesn't matter how happy I am with everything else in my life, I can still hate my body and want to lose weight, there's nothing wrong with that and admitting that. It's like she has to come up with excuses to like her body now, oh well I think stretch marks are sexy, oh well I'm going to say I was restrictive and borderline ED when I was making people pay for guides to have a fit and healthy body i used to have (but I won't delete all the supposed restrictive eating content off of my YouTube), I can't hate this body, it's given me my baby, I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life with this bigger body🥱 it's so boring.I still just don’t understand why thin= miserable and sad and heavier = happier. Like why does there even need to be this correlation? She could still be “living life to the fullest” at her old weight if she had just worked on her own issues.