I'm semi-serious in asking this. Any fraus familiar enough with 12-step programs to comment on whether public declarations of resolve are important? My understanding is that friends/family are supposed to know that you're participating in a program so that they can be supportive, and that the participant has to make commitments to the principles and the program. But I thought that humility is also part of the work, and proclaiming on social media that you'll never be brought down doesn't seem to fit with that.
Also, today's JM tweet makes me even more suspicious than I was yesterday that something big is about to break, and it won't be good for her.
I joined AA pre social media, but it was standard advice that people around you will have likely seen/heard lofty proclamations before and that actions speak louder than words. Saying 'I'm a year sober and attend AA' is wildly different than having a Guardian article published after a week or so of not drinking.
Jack, if she is in a fellowship, routinely breaks the letter and spirit of fellowship sobriety. She doesn't deal with 'life on life's terms' and as others have noted doesn't employ rigerous honesty at all times.
Tbf to Jack though, disruptive attention hoovers like her aren't unusual in AA, but they always hit the drink again, and often then deny that alcohol was an issue and often blame AA.
I remember one woman at AA saying she found out her bf had cheated on her and that the Other Woman and her were going to confront him at his workplace. Acting out this sort of drama is anathema to sober living, but it is how Jack organises and lives her life. As someone else noted, even if she is abstinent, she isn't sober.
I think Jack uses the fellowship as another agent of attention and chaos in her life. AA offers a captive audience to attention seekers, sadly, and as an old-timer pointed out to me, they're often more ill than genuine suffering alcoholics.
Imagine being someone walking into a meeting for the first time, jittery, full of delerium tremens, seeking potentially life saving help for the first time and you're confronted by an hysterical jabbering about her mum's roast potatoes.
Addiction recovery is serious business and flouncing clowns like Jack are a potential menace.