I think the only answer is for her to be sectioned, she won't take any responsibility for her own health now (mental or physical) And just to clarify, you can be sectioned just while assessments and treatment take place, I'm not necessarily suggesting she needs a long term section but I do think she needs some immediate medical intervention.The problem is, Grunka, as we have repeatedly seen, that she is not prepared to take responsibility and do the work needed to get herself better.
She positively revels in being a victim and I think without it she literally has no identity, so in a weird way it's safer and easier for her to stay as she is.
I find her behaviour so depressing and exhausting. She actually makes me really angry
She has an excuse for everything, and is determined not to take any advice or offers for help. The act of someone offering her even the kindest little idea makes her so angry.
It has been unpleasant to watch for a while now, and she's damaging her employment prospects, relationships and credibility. I get that family and friends must feel reluctant to "get her in trouble" or interfere but the fact is that she's now evidently spiralled so far out of control, she's dangerous.
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