@Flumps i have the opposite, a son with very long blonde hair, he likes it long and so it’s up to him. Even though he wears skater type clothes and to be honest is very obviously a boy he still gets called a girl. He doesn’t care one jot and just laughs!That was me! Fingers crossed it works as well for you!
My daughter has short hair (very chic pixie cut/side fringe of her choice, though a bit mullet like now with lockdown), and she gets regular comments about how she doesn't have 'normal' hair and that she looks like a boy from other people at school. She is not at all male-presenting, there's a lot of black and grey but it's all very female clothing, and she is very 'feminine' looking in a waifish way. Yet because of the hair, she's considered massively non-conforming. I find it bizarre, like we have gone backwards.
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