I think
@Bellybutton lint , your response above encapsulates the reason a lot of us are here. You said something not great, it was pointed out to you, and you deleted, apologised and owned your mistake.
If you need to take time off tonight from this thread tonight and reflect, that's fine.
But remember we're all here because we know our thread namesake will NEVER do the above. Because that person is incapable of owning their
duck ups.
Maybe let this be a lesson about how someone can do or say something wrong, but when they apologise and own it properly, they won't be hounded or hated... But encouraged to learn and be better.