I know & would never usually comment on any co parenting arrangements as it must be heart breaking for all involved to be separated. Tbh I don’t feel bad cos she regularly goes on about how awful being a single mother to him is, the relentless work of loading the washer, yet can spend 5 weeks in a hotel room in Aldgate? She’s an utter ghoul. I’m glad she’s stop monetising and exploiting the poor child for #content tho yesCo-parenting is complicated though, and particularly in Jack's case there has been so much misdirection in the past that silence can almost seem like a better option (and possibly preferable for the child/other parent concerned)?
The thing is, she entered into motherhood knowing she would be a co-parent, she's never truly been a single mother imo, she's had a lot of support that she chooses not to talk about as it'll dent the authenticity of her poverty spiel. It's more than obvious she is the not the main caregiver anymore, and we should feel thankful for that in a way. Jack is a spiralling hot mess, that's not healthy for a kid to be around, nor should a parent want to expose that to their child. I really hope she can get herself back in a better place to be able to be a stable person in SB's life.I know & would never usually comment on any co parenting arrangements as it must be heart breaking for all involved to be separated. Tbh I don’t feel bad cos she regularly goes on about how awful being a single mother to him is, the relentless work of loading the washer, yet can spend 5 weeks in a hotel room in Aldgate? She’s an utter ghoul. I’m glad she’s stop monetising and exploiting the poor child for #content tho yes
I tip drivers, delivery men and waiters. I do not entitled people who think they are owed it.I used to go out with a teacher who refused to tip taxi drivers. He said.. 'Why should I? No one tips teachers".
I did understand his point but it provoked a lot of inner horror.
I’m 37. I’ve taken to my bed for a good cry.Only for the next few weeks. Early 30s 30 to 33 & 4 months, mid 30s 33 & 4 months to 36 & 8 months late 30s for the rest.
This is what I don't get, if being freelance is so badly paid why don't these people get regular jobs and do the freelance as a side hussle, I get they want to make money from their art and enjoy their work etc but if it isn't paying for itself whats the point.Here’s a tip for you Jack.
Get a job
you can have that one for free
Agree with this. I’ve a couple of friends who freely admit that their husbands/partners are not men they would necessarily choose to spend their lives with but they wanted children and they knew these guys would stick around and do a good job of being a father. I’ve got mixed feelings about this because, on one hand, I had a deadbeat dad and it was crap but on the other, is it ok to place a lifetime of responsibility on someone? Case dependent, I guess.The thing is, she entered into motherhood knowing she would be a co-parent, she's never truly been a single mother imo, she's had a lot of support that she chooses not to talk about as it'll dent the authenticity of her poverty spiel. It's more than obvious she is the not the main caregiver anymore, and we should feel thankful for that in a way. Jack is a spiralling hot mess, that's not healthy for a kid to be around, nor should a parent want to expose that to their child. I really hope she can get herself back in a better place to be able to be a stable person in SB's life.
LJC, Tattle has got reams of stories for ya, DM us your email, then let's chat, yeah?Is the explosion in social media grifting, soon to be further enabled by the new Twitter tip jar functionality, a suitable story to send to LJ “send me stories” C?
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I was just thinking almost the same thing! Also Jack has lots of stories but I guess they need to actually be true for the bescarfed one to use.LJC, Tattle has got reams of stories for ya, DM us your email, then let's chat, yeah?
Nice.
Yes, I feel uncomfortable about saying negative things about Jack as a parent, because we really don't know And this is one of the few things I will speak up for JackI'm trying to enjoy a cup of tea in the garden but a robin is doing a very loud incessant alarm call because of my cat, who couldn't give less fucks if she tried
I love our neighbours the robins but they've already shat on my washing and now this one's shitting on my me time
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on topic, if Jack has resolved to leave SB off social media I applaud that decision esp as he is reaching an age where it's going to affect him more directly.
I don’t see it either! I really hope that’s the case. Even if they sort out the address issue, it’s still just such a bad idea.I can't see the Tip Jar function on her profile.
Am I right in assuming they've taken this function down whilst they work out how to stop the tip recipient from getting the tipper's address?!
YES!!!! I have a ...creative business...which is great sometimes, and rubbish at other times. So, I work 2 days a week in an office, which I love. I am lucky enough to work with really nice people. I think I would lose sight of reality if I was just in the studio 7 days a week. I have used "I" 8 times in this post. Am I Jack? (10 times actually including those last 2)This is what I don't get, if being freelance is so badly paid why don't these people get regular jobs and do the freelance as a side hussle, I get they want to make money from their art and enjoy their work etc but if it isn't paying for itself whats the point.
This is an excellent thing to do to your colleagues, as in 'so you were 33 in February, that makes you mid 30s' then explaining it mathematically when they objectI’m 37. I’ve taken to my bed for a good cry.