Finished my grunka and while reading felt like replying to every Frau contribution as always but left it to it because I would never finish the grunka otherwise and also Frauen have, as always, written out all the thoughts I later had/or had before, although not really before as I was behind with reading, if you can follow my logic. I also might just sound like JM who has attended a 'Philosophy for beginners' class.
I enjoyed erotic/sex Jack hiding things from her Sunday School accountant, if he/she exists, and nearly joined in telling my entirely unerotic experience (spoiler:nothing happened) at a London lesbian SM club (not a social media club) night. It was a great idea as it is not generally my thing anyway.
On a more serious note, I found birthday cake gate very disturbing. As much as I'd like to witch about it, I can't fully.I saw the cake posted as a pic on the recipient's (can't get myself to even mention her) Insta (still there) and thought it was really nice and probably would also taste well (unlike her revolting slop food). To read JMs comments (her post has been deleted) was shocking. It sounded aggressive, vulgar to the max and the whole thing was manipulative to the core. It is a classic double bind. To do something lovely but also devalue it and in JM style add her own drama. If you want to do something nice, just do it. Don't say how tit the process for you was, even if it was. Don't make the recipient feel guilty. I 'guess' that has been her intention. So as always, she does not need lecturing by me. She knows what she is doing. But it hurts to read.
clarity
I’m not edgy enough I’m just very very basic. I’ll stick with the classics of Smelly Cat and Papier-mâché Man
