So no outfit today! She managed 18days. Longer than I thought.
I know, I feel bad in a way. Obviously reading here has had a huge detrimental effect on her mental health and she's taken everything personally. No-one has said they want her to fail but have mentioned that she's given up at lots of things she started.So no outfit today! She managed 18days. Longer than I thought.
Just found the pic of that particular snack. Now I'm calorie counting and sometimes have a teaspoon of nutella in my porridge so I know the calories pretty well. Looking at the pic, I'd suggest shes got got a teaspoon on each biscuit. 4 digestive biscuits comes in at 280 calories, and 1 teaspoon of nutella is 80 calories. So for that snack alone we're looking at 600 calories. She needs to sort it out.thats very true! That small snack could be over 400 calories, that’s quite a heavy calorific “snack” then all the other shite she eats on top of that. She’s perhaps trying to keep up with onslow who should be on higher calories than her anyway but I’m sure he’s on even higher calories than he should be. The pair of them are a heart attack waiting to happen.
Completely agree. She’s fishing for interaction. If she gets any messages I’m sure she’ll make a nice reel montage of them!I’ve seen other influencers do this. They do an overly emotive post after seeing some thing they don’t like maybe on tattle but maybe in their DMs or in comments they have then deleted. Then the go silent for a day, come back the next day and say something like hey guys sorry for not posting yesterday I was having a bit of time off social media mainly for my mental health and to reflect. Then they get a load of sympathy blah blah. It’s a classic narcissist manipulation technique and follows the whole drama triangle pattern too,
I’ve have seen this In its extreme form (and usually in real life) when it is the start or part of an abusive relationship where the narcissist will punish anyone who doesn’t agree with them with silent treatment and will appear to be the victim but in reality a narcissist won’t allow themselves to be a victim. There must be some other source of ego feeding today.
I personally think the world of the influencer is so unhealthy for them, they start out as normal everyday People and then they become addicted to the attention and get a hit or buzz out of likes comments free stuff all the positive aspects of it but then don’t really think about the negative or even other side of the role they have chosen to put themselves in, they feed their ego so much and the narcissistic personality develops.
Looking back at ems channel it’s really easy to plot this growing and in some ways it’s sad to watch but it seems like in her every day life she doesn’t have anyone challenging her so then it appears that the only way she can cope with any challenges is to automatically fall into the victim role and get aggressively defensive (mainly passive aggressive because of the way she doesn’t acknowledge stuff head on) either way all this attention positive or negative is feeding her ego big time.
If I were her mum or friend I would urge her to stop doing her influencing or cut it right back because she obviously cannot cope with it on an emotional or intellectual level.
Innit!! And it’s not even her full time job so the only motive for doing it is attention as far as I can tell?!Completely agree. She’s fishing for interaction. If she gets any messages I’m sure she’ll make a nice reel montage of them!
OrEmma put a photo up of her dad a while back, she looks very much like him and he looked very much like Anthony Costa one of the singers from Blue, almost looked like his double.
And that’s someone with ‘no confidence’. Behave, that’s a massive deal to film something like that. It’s attention seeking. She’s been reading here and needs her followers to pad her ego.I hadn't seen the reel either when I commented. The sad emo looking towards the floor like it's your MySpace profile pic in 2004 whilst filming your 'flaws' in black and white made me