At last some honesty
Absolutely understand this. Apart from my wedding photos I’ve barely been in photographs since I was a teenager. I’m chubbier than I’d like, size 14, but I’m 5’2 and don’t carry it well, all stomach. I literally joke that I’m I’m kidnapped there’s no photos to use. I don’t like being on webcams, Zoom, Skype and try to use the audio only. So I can not for a minute understand how someone posting pics and videos of themselves daily, to put on their socials with thousands of followers claim they have low confidence. I’m not even taking a selfie to post to about 12 friends or family on FB or IG through anxiety.As some who doesn’t look down at their body hasn’t taken a picture in 3 years it really boils my blood when I see people saying they hate themselves but still posts videos and pictures what is wrong with me then if she has low confidence am I nuts?
You are me!!! There's hardly any pics of me, I hate having my photo taken, I've never even taken a selfie!!!Absolutely understand this. Apart from my wedding photos I’ve barely been in photographs since I was a teenager. I’m chubbier than I’d like, size 14, but I’m 5’2 and don’t carry it well, all stomach. I literally joke that I’m I’m kidnapped there’s no photos to use. I don’t like being on webcams, Zoom, Skype and try to use the audio only. So I can not for a minute understand how someone posting pics and videos of themselves daily, to put on their socials with thousands of followers claim they have low confidence. I’m not even taking a selfie to post to about 12 friends or family on FB or IG through anxiety.
That is literally exactly the same as me! I have never face timed I haven’t been in any family pics since I was about 10 and I forced lol I’ve been away with friends and refused pics but some appeared on fb and I was so upset! I’m a size 8-10 and I know deep down I’m not huge but I just feel like the biggest most grotesque thing ever! Hope you’re ok it’s really a kick in the teeth when you really know suffering. I think she’s read here it’s upset her and she’s doing the video in hopes no one else will comment on it. She’s so confident you have to have confidence to go out dressed as brightly as she does as well makes about as much sense as this rambly postAbsolutely understand this. Apart from my wedding photos I’ve barely been in photographs since I was a teenager. I’m chubbier than I’d like, size 14, but I’m 5’2 and don’t carry it well, all stomach. I literally joke that I’m I’m kidnapped there’s no photos to use. I don’t like being on webcams, Zoom, Skype and try to use the audio only. So I can not for a minute understand how someone posting pics and videos of themselves daily, to put on their socials with thousands of followers claim they have low confidence. I’m not even taking a selfie to post to about 12 friends or family on FB or IG through anxiety.
It's probably cos we can say how it is on here, she can delete her own negative comments, the comments on her vlog this morning are all fawning over her, waves to em!!!!!!Good she's opened up about it.
But i'm just cringing hard at how much she reads here. Like everything we talk about here, she immediately reacts to on her channels. So is it genuine, or not. Is it good for her to be so fixated on this thread?
Exactly what I thought it’s self indulgent she doesn’t have to be online at all it’s so crazy she Says her small corner of the internet her scrap book etc but fundamentally she just wants to suck up attention for wherever she can get it otherwise she could keep all of that private! And then a stranger giving her a compliment Changed the course of her mood for the rest of the day. Her saying she survived the pandemic also jarred me when it appears as if her life hasn’t really altered too much other than she can’t do exactly what she wants when she wants which for most people is the reality of being an adult!It's a bit self-indulgent tbh. You can address it without being self-pitying. Yes I've put weight on, I'm not happy about it and have been contorting my body to look smaller but this is my plan to get myself back on track... not all 'I'm supposed to be a body positive role model, I can't be happy carrying extra weight"
Plan your meals healthily, walk the dog more, move more. Speak to the NHS about the weight management plan... We're not here to sit and pick you apart for trying but head out your arse time
Mik is highly passive aggressive as we know. I hate to bring up the subject but remember when Mik made that really insensitive video about her own 'infertility journey' not long after Em had posted about hers. Bearing in mind Mik hadn't actually had any issues conceiving Milo..... very suss.Also more proof her and Khila are fake friends. Khila's get ready with me video this morning had a different thumbnail but then she's now changed it to one of her looking sad holding a make up sponge because Em's thumbnail is her looking sad. Doesn't want her getting all the views this morning! Which is why she then went live on Instagram as well!
That really pissed me off when she said she survived the pandemic, only thing that affected her was going on holiday, they've all kept their jobs.shes been out shopping, having home improvement s done, nothing changed for her, I could go on, but am taking my lardy arse out on a dog walk!!!!Exactly what I thought it’s self indulgent she doesn’t have to be online at all it’s so crazy she Says her small corner of the internet her scrap book etc but fundamentally she just wants to suck up attention for wherever she can get it otherwise she could keep all of that private! And then a stranger giving her a compliment Changed the course of her mood for the rest of the day. Her saying she survived the pandemic also jarred me when it appears as if her life hasn’t really altered too much other than she can’t do exactly what she wants when she wants which for most people is the reality of being an adult!