I definitely think there’s some revisionist history happening in terms of the way L currently views her friendship with J. Now that L is no longer friends with J, she is looking back on their friendship and interpreting events that she might’ve actually been okay with at the time as bullying. For example, the back and forth between her and J was once seen as harmless banter but is now seen as J being condescending. We all do it to some extent but I don’t think L has the self-awareness to realise what she’s doing. I’m sure there were many times J was patronising, I noticed it too, but it probably wasn’t as frequent as L is making it out to be.jenny being condescending to Lindsay seemed to be a topic here and I think people wrote into the anonymous tumblr about it as well back when they had it open all the time. But L herself went on the pod and said she’s well able to stand her ground, and that actually outside of the pod she has more of the dominating energy- something along those lines. I think it’s convenient now for L to say she was bullied because she’s aware that was the outside perception. She argued with J just as much. She admitted she was jealous of J and E when they started going out and would dismiss loads of stories like the story of their first date, the holiday where they tried anal etc. The two of them were as bad as each other for the contradicting but they always assured the listeners it was their dynamic and they were like a married couple
Absolutely. I kind of hate the way people keep making out that J had it rough putting up with all of L’s tit. J chose to be friends with L and stay friends with her. Yes, they had a business together which complicates things but at the end of the day they’re both adults and they are equally responsible for setting/accepting boundaries as friends/business partners. Being in an unhealthy relationship does not necessarily justify dealing with that relationship in an unhealthy manner.I am just scarlett for both of them at this stage. Didn't think Jenny would make a counter statement. It's all so embarrassing now.
It's clear their relationship was on the rocks for a while. Jenny went too far with her bitching. If they really said on a pod that they witch / talk about each other when they're not around that's not a good basis for a friendship anyway. I have a few close friends and we would NEVER EVER do that. The relationship was obviously unhealthy the whole time. May have originally started with concern but IMO that doesn't excuse it. I'd say Jenny was sick of dealing with Lindsay's tit, fair enough, but she didn't deal with it in the right way. I personally wouldn't be able to deal with Lindsay making the same mistakes over and over again. I personally doubt the sisters said it to Lindsay. I still think she maybe saw some messages. I'd say Jenny did duck up and say some nasty tit. I agree Jenny always seemed to look down on Lindsay. Again not a good basis for a friendship. Remember the timeline was the live stream was scheduled and then didn't go ahead at short notice.
Basically their friendship was already super unhealthy and they both have a role to play in the breakdown IMO so I don't really know why people are taking sides.
And def seems like Linds only posted that statement cos Jenny was getting positive attention. Wish they would both just move on.
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