I'm currently catching up with the thread (at page 4, I've got a way to go!) but I just wanted to say that a male friend of mine has not long left his abusive ex girlfriend - she is acting EXACTLY like Alice. She's making out that my friend was the bad guy despite him being worn down over the years, she's harassing him with new email addresses and sock Twitter accounts despite him blocking everything, and she really doesn't like the idea of him telling anyone his side.
Abusers are all the same, aren't they?