Ok, see my opinion may annoy some but such is lifeā¦
I donāt think Imogen or anyone who talks about breastfeeding are trying to judge/shame mother who choose/cannot breastfeed. Someone talking about THEIR choices is NOT a judgementā¦itās just THEIR choice. Itās like saying if someoneās favourite fruit is an apple, then youāre judging someone who likes grapesā¦
. Iāve seen both sides of the coin with exclusively breastfeeding one child, and combi feeding another. You do what you can or what you want. The problem with Imogen is that she has NOTHING to say apart from barking at us about how much she loves her kids and BreAsTfeEdinG. I get the impression that sheās just a boring girl with nothing to say. Letās be honest, itās clear as day that sheās super middle class and doesnāt have real problems. She has no personality or charisma. The best thing in her life is her kidsā¦which is fineā¦for her I guess. She may have always looked forward to experiencing motherhood and all that it comes with. Iām a housewife and Iāve ALWAYS wanted to be a mum and breastfeed and dream about what it would be like to have my own baby to love. Some people genuinely are into all this young baby stuff and are super proud of it, I get it because Iām that way myself (but I have a life outside of motherhood and actual banter
) If she actually had a life and a personality outside of all this it wouldnāt anywhere near as insufferable as it is. All this is to say people can and should be allowed to express a preference or opinion without it being a slight or judgement on someone else. We cannot change the scientific evidence to help ourselves sleep at night. The world and his wife know that breastfeeding is the best option from a nutritional point, we also all know not everyone can and will want to do thisā¦also fine! For centuries women have breastfed and for centuries women have STRUGGLED to, thatās why āmilk maidsā were a thing. Letās not inadvertently place Imogen on a pedestal, she is not unique in her ability to able to feed her children from her bodyā¦.its been happening since the beginning of humanity
. Imogen just needs to shut up and change the record. SHES proud of her breastfeeding, the rest of us donāt care and just wish she wasnāt such a cringe fest. She needs to get a grip and get out more. Stop torturing that poor man for Christ sake! The dancing video are the real crime here. The faces she pulls when singing and dancingā¦THIS is what she needs to release us from
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Iāve just seen the length of that paragraph and given myself a bellyache, sorry I do this to you guys