Kinda feel for her at the moment. Renalien’s development is starting to come across as slightly concerning. I don’t think there’s any actual issue there, but it’s such an important age for development and it looks like there’s a LOT of stunting going on and in some ways, even though it is Imo’s fault, the woman is mentally unstable and unwell. So, I’m starting to blame her less and actually feel for her. Don’t come for me! But like, imagine reading tattle and seeing the true, harsh reality of what your behaviour is doing to the thing you love most in the world. It’s a slap in the face, so I get that she must be a complete mess about it behind closed doors. And although she isn’t changing any of these behaviours after we’ve called them out, I’m starting to place blame on Spencer and her family more-so. She’s too far gone in whatever post-natal illnesses she’s clearly struggling with. They should be alert and aware enough to step in and help her - for the sake of the child. Yes, she is a terrible person in a million and one ways, but she’s also sick and is the primary carer for a one year old. People need to step in and stop allowing this woman to impart all her mess and tit on the poor kid. Calling you out, Spencer, parents etc. please try and help her so you can help Renalien.
Completely agree about Spencer - I know a lot of people feel sorry for him but I think he’s a
twit. I don’t think she’s got anything post partum though she acted like this way before Ren, she’s just a full on narcissistic & a pathological liar who’ll say anything for attention. Her mask is just starting to slip now and she’s tripping up over her lies.
However, idk how Spencer can 1. Just allow her to constantly emasculate him, 2. Just do everything and allow her to doss about, 3. Just let her show complete and utter contempt for his relationship with his own daughter, 4. Let her stop him stepping in when it comes to raising his daughter and 5. Not call her out when she’s clearly acting like an over dramatic prick..
The issue is, is that she consumed by her narcissism and god complex she can’t cope with someone asking her a basic question let alone anything else. I can imagine if Spencer told her to stop acting the fool around Ren she’d kick off massively & have a pretend panic attack or something stupid.
Spencer and her family 1000% enable her behaviour by just constantly giving her compliments and telling her amazing she is.
Same with her online presence.. Spencer will delete and block anyone who so much as asks a question, you can only be in her life if you’re “kind” aka if you sit and tell her how amazing and wonderful she is.
I don’t feel sorry for her at all. She makes her own choices - I think stepping off social media for a bit and just spending some quality time with Ren would do them the world of goodbut she won’t, because she wants validation & attention from her huns too much.
& also if she reads her again that’s a choice. Just block the website and stay away from it but she again makes the choice to put everything about her life online but can’t cope with anyone talking or commenting on it.
She’s just absolutely not built for social media at all. Idk what job she could handle tbh… she’s just an entitled spoilt emotional stunted
twit & everyone in her life (including her huns) encourage her.
anything that harnesses that need she will cling on to with Ren. As a mother she should be championing her daughter’s developmental growth of learning to acquire vital skills at this young and tender age. Shocking. Put your bloody daughter and her learning new life skills first before your own selfish desire to be ‘needed’ to further feed your already disgracefully huge ego. Makes my blood boil!!!!
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Crazy what Spencer lets her away with. A shame. He is quite obviously miserable.
