We’d both like it a little more than that but tiredness etc! Crucially though we are both on the same page, I think it’s the disparity in needs rather than the amount that causes issues. Also, we are very affectionate with each other outside the bedroom.
One thing I’ve talked about with two of my friends, who both have sex a bit more often than me is the time spent. So I would say, from start to finish including foreplay etc our sex takes about an hour to an hour and a half. Anything quicker than that is very rare. My husband takes ages to come, and always has, apart from a period about 10 years ago when he came a few times in about 30 seconds which was far too quick haha
anyway, my point is that talking to my friends, they said their average to start to finish time was about 15-20 minutes! So I think if my husband and I could do it in around half an hour, we’d do it more often! I think because it’s easier to find the time in our busy lives for a 20 minute session, rather than getting into bed and then the thought of being awake for another hour or so
p.s. I do like sex, I just really like sleep more