well if you feel bad then I feel even worse, we haven’t done it for 7 months either but we don’t even have kids
I’m just not interested at all
I’ve never been interested in sex, I thought it was (ironically) because of the pill but I stopped taking it for a while and I still wasn’t interested
we’ve been together a few years and in the beginning of the relationship it was okay but it really hurts for me so I tend to avoid it. If we do go near each other we tend to do other stuff and not the whole way as it’s not worth the hassle.
He’s always busy with work and does really long shifts so he’s tired a lot and I’m always really stressed with work. But he would do it all the time if he could. It breaks my heart really that I don’t give him it and if I’m honest I’m expecting him to leave me eventually because of it. I think about it a lot but I don’t know what to do because I can’t just make myself want it! I’m just not a sexual person at all and never have been. It’s psychological definitely, as I don’t have much confidence in myself.
Last time we did it was in December and before that it would have been months before. He’s just given up trying now. We are early 20s with no kids, sad isn’t it