Having been twice before to unsuitables, I was reluctant to meet someone else. I was enjoying life. Anyway, became friends with my future sister-in-law (sadly passed away with cancer a few weeks ago). Was invited to her 40th and met her sister. This was 1992. We moved in together in 1993 - married 1996 (no children unfortunately) and celebrate our silver wedding later this year. Her work was as a nurse (ward sister) - would not be without her. She is my soulmate and rock.