She has stolen a couple more recipes but nothing complex or ground-breaking. Really boring, in line with her general personal taste.
My only question is who has she stolen these from.
HomewithShan #6 Still ignores her kids & asks ‘why does George scream at me?’, would take a poke in eye for free
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My only question is who has she stolen these from.
Sorry but if a doctor fobbed me off with “ah probably a magnesium deficiency” for a toddler who can’t sleep for the amount of pain his legs are in, and who wakes up screaming??? Nope! I’m not buying that even happened tbh. Did she definitely say a GP told her this? Or was the magnesium thing just something she read online?
I also just cannot imagine getting worked up about babies/young toddlers throwing food on the floor. That’s just par for the course, surely. I account for floor related loss when portioning up my youngest’s food (1 yo). They soon stop doing it - IF you don’t turn it into a big issue
I also just cannot imagine getting worked up about babies/young toddlers throwing food on the floor. That’s just par for the course, surely. I account for floor related loss when portioning up my youngest’s food (1 yo). They soon stop doing it - IF you don’t turn it into a big issue
I don't remember the exact words she used but she did mention she had taken him to the doctor/GP and had some tests. I assume they all came back normal and she said the result is that it probably came down to a magnesium deficiency.
I agree that it doesn't sound like a believable story but then again most of what she says doesn't so I wasn't even fazed anymore
Tbh I think the only thing she could say that I'd find believable is 'I'm a crap mum and massive brat who was and still is far too immature and selfish to start and then expand a family so I hate my kids when they inconvenience me so I've dedicated my life to uploading tit content to get praise and validation from strangers so I haven't felt like I've fucked up my life....oh and my useless husband never helps me or pays me any attention'.I agree that it doesn't sound like a believable story but then again most of what she says doesn't so I wasn't even fazed anymore
If only this whole text could be turned into the next thread's title
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Her latest HelloFresh ad is so full of BS - even considerably above what is normal for her.
The 'i'm not gonna lie's have come out again. They actually mean that she is about to lie.
She isn't still a HelloFresh subscriber because it's easier for her. It's becauase of either the discounts or kickbacks or income she receives from HelloFresh. Nothing else.
So then, you ARE lying to us there Shan, aren't you? Plain and clear.
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Only 10 mins into the vlog and the way she is talking to George and making horrible faces about him in the new vlog is absolutely VILE. How does anyone actually support this disgusting woman?! The minute he opened his eyes she’s snapping and snarling at him when he did absolutely nothing in the slightest to warrant it. All he wants is attention and love from her and she is SO cold towards him and has absolutely no patience for for anything he says or does. Genuinely have never witnessed a mother dislike her own child in this way before, how are people supporting this mess of a woman?!! The flat faced witch needs to have a serious look at herself. She constantly complains about his behaviour but the only person with serious behavioral issues is herself.
why on earth would anyone sane think that people would enjoy watching an entire vlog of someone being exasperated and impatient with their child for absolutely no reason. Poor george. He just needs some love and attention and not even telling her that he's in pain gets him any. She mentioned the growing pains as though it's the first time she's ever mentioned it - this has been going on for months, right? If my child was telling me repeatedly for months and months that they were in pain and waking up screaming with it, I would not leave the doctors office until they referred us to a specialist.
I nearly choked on my coffee when she was talking about how she doesn't do enough with the kids, take them out to groups and activities etc because she's always just cleaning and then in the next breath said she had a new plan to clean/organise a different part of the house each day. What?!? I thought she was going to say how she has a plan to go to a different play group every day and stop fixating on the cleaning but nope. Shan, get out and go places with your kids in the daytime and set a timer for 30mins after they're in bed and bash out whatever cleaning you can get done in that time. Make Ash participate too. I promise you'll feel better.
Why are her kids always in a different room to her? She's obsessed with distracting them so she can escape and sit down talking to a camera having a cup of tea in another room. Even the video of them at budget centre parks or wherever they were; she said Halle was inside chilling on her play mat or bouncer or something so that meant she could escape and go outside talking to a camera for a good 10 mins... why? If Halle is just chilling out why couldn't she be doing her vlog in there with her so that at least Halle has some company. There's obviously times when I'm in another room to my kids briefly because I need to make a drink or get something or whatever but I'm not constantly trying to distract them so I can leave them for prolonged periods of time. They're young, like hers! Anything I need to do I can do around them, and ideally get them involved with as much as possible so they are included and uh, learn valuable life skills!
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I honestly think Shan is a perfect example of why social media/influencer culture can be really harmful & toxic. when she first started out she actually seemed like a loving parent, had time for her child and seemed to genuinely want to be a good mum to George. She seemed to know how to look after a child. As the years have passed, chasing followers, the superficialness and shallowness of it all, everything being about content...I mean, she is practically brain dead at this point. She went from someone who was a loving parent to someone who just simply DOESNT parent, someone who hasn't a clue how to connect with her kids. She needs to deactivate all of her accounts and focus on being there for her children. Influencer life is not for her. She's tit at it and in her repeated attempts at trying to flog a dead horse she's actually neglecting her children
I nearly choked on my coffee when she was talking about how she doesn't do enough with the kids, take them out to groups and activities etc because she's always just cleaning and then in the next breath said she had a new plan to clean/organise a different part of the house each day. What?!? I thought she was going to say how she has a plan to go to a different play group every day and stop fixating on the cleaning but nope. Shan, get out and go places with your kids in the daytime and set a timer for 30mins after they're in bed and bash out whatever cleaning you can get done in that time. Make Ash participate too. I promise you'll feel better.
Why are her kids always in a different room to her? She's obsessed with distracting them so she can escape and sit down talking to a camera having a cup of tea in another room. Even the video of them at budget centre parks or wherever they were; she said Halle was inside chilling on her play mat or bouncer or something so that meant she could escape and go outside talking to a camera for a good 10 mins... why? If Halle is just chilling out why couldn't she be doing her vlog in there with her so that at least Halle has some company. There's obviously times when I'm in another room to my kids briefly because I need to make a drink or get something or whatever but I'm not constantly trying to distract them so I can leave them for prolonged periods of time. They're young, like hers! Anything I need to do I can do around them, and ideally get them involved with as much as possible so they are included and uh, learn valuable life skills!
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I honestly think Shan is a perfect example of why social media/influencer culture can be really harmful & toxic. when she first started out she actually seemed like a loving parent, had time for her child and seemed to genuinely want to be a good mum to George. She seemed to know how to look after a child. As the years have passed, chasing followers, the superficialness and shallowness of it all, everything being about content...I mean, she is practically brain dead at this point. She went from someone who was a loving parent to someone who just simply DOESNT parent, someone who hasn't a clue how to connect with her kids. She needs to deactivate all of her accounts and focus on being there for her children. Influencer life is not for her. She's tit at it and in her repeated attempts at trying to flog a dead horse she's actually neglecting her children
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G is just the perfect age to be helping around the house. It is a bit of hindrance but they follow you round with a cloth chatting your head off and showing you all the ways they've helped it's just the cutest thing ever. I always have a kid hanging off me when I'm trying to do housework. Mopping the floor is my middles favourite activity. Crawling after the vac and laughing at it for no reason is my babies favourite activity.
My eldest is 2ish and does this already! Loves tidying up, cleaning and putting things away. If Shan had bothered to include George in her cleaning and tidying up routine from young(er) or if she made it fun, he could even help her. He would love the attention too.
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She has just agreed to an unpaid career break until next Sept where social media is her only job so she is unlikely to be quitting any time soon!
When H starts nursery in September with her free 15 hours, she'll be even more ignorant of her kids (if that's actually possible)
Right?! I think most parents have the common sense to do this, they love helping out. My 2 year absolutely loves helping with stuff around the house and in the garden and me and his dad always encourage it. It means I don't feel guilty about getting little things done because I know he will help and enjoys it. It gives them a bit of independence too by giving them little tasks to do. It is more of a hindrance at first but the more they do it it does actually help you out as well as being fun for them.
I know I sound very 'blame Ash' in some of my posts- but comparing them (from what we see) to someone I knew in real life, it wouldn't shock me if the reason she is so hell bent on cleaning is because he expects it because she is always at home and sees that as his god given right to come home to a spotless house. I would not be surprised if he gives her so much tit that she has to prioritise cleaning so that he doesn't kick off when he gets back. It's all speculation and probs boils down to her wanting an Instagram level clean house and her being willing to do absolutely anything and everything to avoid looking after her own kids, but if she came out one day and said Ash was such a lazy entitled prick that he expected his wife to prioritise cleaning the home so it's nice when he gets back from work over anything else, including their kids. I wouldn't be at all surprised.
He cares very little about mess or tidiness. He leaves piles of clothes where it's more convenient, and she documents the way he empties his pockets leaving stuff everywhere. It would be the biggest surprise to hear that he acts like that yet he is the one pressuring her to keep a tidy home. I think it all comes from her. Ash isn't there most of the time.
I think she is just a clean freak as it's the only thing she can fully control. Of course some things do need doing, but if you are prioritising cleaning or tidying non-essential things over spending time with your children, and are willing to leave two little kids unattended for long periods just to get it done, I think it's a problem. Other people develop eating disorders to cope with situations where they feel out of control. Of course it is also speculation but think she has some real mental health issues. A lot of her behaviours, in general, aren't those of a person of sound mind.
I literally came here to say exactly this. I'm mortified she has recorded herself blatantly hating her 3 year old. I feel so sorry for him. He is pushed aside so much for H and Shans communication with him is absolutely rotten.
I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old, I understand some days can be incredibly tough. But honestly the last thing I think of doing is broadcasting to the internet. What the actual F. The poor kids
Found Shan on Reddit haha
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That's a really interesting take I hadn't thought of, then again I really wouldn't be shocked if he doesn't care about the mess he creates...because in his eye's it's not his job to clean and he knows Shan will just do it so in his mind he doesn't have to be tidy because he knows he can create whatever mess he wants as Shan will be the one to deal with it. I've personally known people to not care about making a mess because they will just demand and expect their partner cleans it so in their mind they can make whatever mess, it's not their problem but if their mess isn't cleaned to their standard whosever 'job' it is to clean will get moaned at. I can really see him being like this and I think he has some superiority complex because he goes out to work whilst she doesn't, so that in his head means he should be immune from any chores and parenting. He does cook sometimes thought doesn't he...so maybe I'm wrong!
I agree it's a problem when you potentially risk the safety of two young kids just to do some cleaning but that's Shan all over really isn't it- does what she wants when she wants and her kids wants and needs come second. I agree she could have some MH issues but I also think she is a brat and can't stand the fact that she is (or rather shouldn't be) her own first priority anymore so hates it when she has to do things for her kids that she chose to have because it's an obstacle blocking her from what she wants to do. I also stand by the fact she thought she'd be making peers jealous by reaching life milestones first (buying a house, having kids, getting married etc) but in reality they couldn't care and are happy with their own lives whilst she has 'it all' but it's clearly not satisfying her. She's just a selfish brat who cares more about herself than her kids and is desperate to be a successful influencer.
If it's magnesium deficiency I'm surprised she isn't on the beg for betteryou to gift her or an aff link for their websiteI don't remember the exact words she used but she did mention she had taken him to the doctor/GP and had some tests. I assume they all came back normal and she said the result is that it probably came down to a magnesium deficiency.
I agree that it doesn't sound like a believable story but then again most of what she says doesn't so I wasn't even fazed anymore
If she had those kids in a routine she could clean to her hearts content whilst they are napping or in bed.
what I don't understand is why she doesn't treat it with tablets or why G hasn't had bloodwork done to confirm such deficiency.
I might need to set up a burner Insta account to send questions in for be next vlog so I don't get blocked and can continue to hate-watch her
Yea, betteryou do the kids bath salts, lotions, oils etc so she should be using those. You absorb magnesium better through your skin apparently