HomewithShan#6 Still ignores her kids & asks ‘why does George scream at me?’, would take a poke in eye for free

[Puffin_island]

I think anyone that gives Shan any ounce of attention, she calls them a bestie because she has no concept of what an actual friendship is.

Also, her latest reel!?!? A boy George's age having that much energy is absolutely normal.
The problem is that SHE is not giving him the right outlet to release it. It probably doesn't help he has no sleep hygiene to help his circadian rhythm so naturally wakes at stupid o'clock and wants to run around and play. Will she ever realise that most the problems she is facing is her own doing and not the children's fault?!

I see she's sticking to her plan of not oversharing information about her children......

Also, her new vlog is 55mins!!!! I know I usually take a hit for the tattle team but I can't face this. Maybe 3 of us can take 20mins (at double speed obvz!) and share the essentials

 

[Thinkevilthoughts]

Weird AF. Not so weird for Shan since she has literally no other friends. I wonder how long this one will last her.

Did Liv also call her bestie?

Yeah I think it was Liv who actually posted it on her story!

Step awayyyyyy liv

I notice Shan is also now calling her vlogs RAW like Liv

 

[cosmicstar]

I think anyone that gives Shan any ounce of attention, she calls them a bestie because she has no concept of what an actual friendship is.

Also, her latest reel!?!? A boy George's age having that much energy is absolutely normal.
The problem is that SHE is not giving him the right outlet to release it. It probably doesn't help he has no sleep hygiene to help his circadian rhythm so naturally wakes at stupid o'clock and wants to run around and play. Will she ever realise that most the problems she is facing is her own doing and not the children's fault?!

I see she's sticking to her plan of not oversharing information about her children......

Also, her new vlog is 55mins!!!! I know I usually take a hit for the tattle team but I can't face this. Maybe 3 of us can take 20mins (at double speed obvz!) and share the essentials

Happy to split the task! I know there's a website you can watch youtube videos through that won't add to her channel views. I'll find it and post it on here. We use it in another influencers tattle board

 

[MrsHeather]

I watched the start of her latest vlog, had to turn it off because she's going to the osteopath for her leg pain but is doing nothing about George's leg pain and its really pissed me off
Also, they're going abroad in summer with family, 5 adults and 5 children. Obviously she wasn't going to tackle going abroad without some help. That's as far as could handle!

 

[ohsosweet]

I watched it and it took me ages to finish because I had to keep stopping and starting because it was so long .

To sum up:
- Magnesium will be the key to G sleeping better, not the effort on the part of his parents to support him with a consistent bedtime routine and limit screen time. It’s great for children with neurodivergence apparently (so we know where her channel is headed to next).
- They’re going on a few staycations and also with family to Morocco in August.
- A is going to replace their bathroom soon over the space of a week (including actually working himself in this time and knocking walls down, replastering, tiling) whilst she takes the kids away, again with family but UK based. Side note - they both earn, just save up and get the sodding bathroom done rather than putting that money towards a future business venture. If your bathroom needs doing and you have the capital, just do it for goodness sake. I’m sure more passive aggressive text exchanges are to come.
- Mentioned being post partum again. Not sure how long she can keep banging on about it when her second child is nearly one.
- Meals across the week of H having nothing but veg fritters and strawberries. G having chocolate spread on his morning toast (again).

That’s all I can remember. The rest was just utter waffle and repeated nonsense that she’s said over and over in other vlogs.

 

[Puffin_island]

Thank you!
I listened to it while I was cooking earlier and other things I took from it was....

Shan saying she isn't looking forward to George's routine getting messed up when on holidays. Sorry love, what routine?!

She also mentioned she can't remember what her life was like before having children. Again, Shan you were still basically a child when you had George and you didn't have a life or interests.

She banged on about how post partum mum health and self care gets forgotten, which I absolutely agree with. But she's obviously trying to beg a free mummy MOT and doesn't even look after her own children properly and just wants to look after herself instead. She's a complete narcissist.

 

[miamia26]

Awww lovely to finally see daddy in a video

 

[Thinkevilthoughts]

Awww lovely to finally see daddy in a video

I think that’s her way of giving tattle the finger for saying ash was an absent waste of space.

Hey Shan; nice to see you reading here instead of playing with your kids

 

[Puffin_island]

I think that’s her way of giving tattle the finger for saying ash was an absent waste of space.

Hey Shan; nice to see you reading here instead of playing with your kids

That's the same response he seems to have with doing any sort of housework

 

[cosmicstar]

@Puffin_island Sorry I couldn't find the link to watch the video without giving views and I didnt want to google it in case it led to some virus or something.

Does she even understand the actual meaning on RAW in this context? She is only using it because she thinks it'll give her more views, how pathetic.

 

[realistic_real_life]

Here we go: https://yewtu.be/search?q=homewithshan

 

[sageandoak]

she makes the excuse of having 2 children is the reason she hasn’t taken Halle swimming but George is in crèche at least 2 days a week… can’t she take her then or they can go as a family at the weekend (imagine )

 

[whatshernameagain_93]

I think he's at nursery 4 days a week!! So she has absolutely no excuse at all.

 

[Puffin_island]

@Puffin_island Sorry I couldn't find the link to watch the video without giving views and I didnt want to google it in case it led to some virus or something.

Does she even understand the actual meaning on RAW in this context? She is only using it because she thinks it'll give her more views, how pathetic.

There was nothing raw in that vlog. Be it raw as in unedited footage or raw as in authentic and makes you feel something. Sad fishing Shan as usual.

I think he's at nursery 4 days a week!! So she has absolutely no excuse at all.

I can't remember exactly but think she dropped his days while on mat leave. Not sure if it was down to 2 or 3. Probably 2 to save money. Even then that's still 2 days she could have taken Halle swimming.
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she makes the excuse of having 2 children is the reason she hasn’t taken Halle swimming but George is in crèche at least 2 days a week… can’t she take her then or they can go as a family at the weekend (imagine )

She saves the weekends for her spa days in Lidl

 

[MrsHeather]

She dropped his days then put him back in for 4 days because it was too much parenting.

 

[Dramallama2]

Yeah she definitely dropped his days down to 3 at the start of maternity leave then quickly put him back in for 4 days because she couldn't be arsed to deal with him. She only has to deal with him Fri/Sat/Sun now but even that's way too much for her.

 

[Puffin_island]

I guess the plus of her sending him back for 4 days is that he's not plonked in front of the TV which is what was happening otherwise.

 

[cosmicstar]

Here we go: https://yewtu.be/search?q=homewithshan

Thanks so much that's precisely the one I was after! @Puffin_island if you ever want to watch but not give her the views, this is the link to use.
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she makes the excuse of having 2 children is the reason she hasn’t taken Halle swimming but George is in crèche at least 2 days a week… can’t she take her then or they can go as a family at the weekend (imagine )

whether it's 2 or 4 it doesn't matter. Where I live it's easier to get babies/toddlers in swimming classes if they are mid-week so she has literally NO excuse not to take her. It would be a great way to socialise and do exercise as well. They tend to be pricey for little babies so maybe she doesn't want to spend the money (it wouldn't be like it, now would it? )
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There was nothing raw in that vlog. Be it raw as in unedited footage or raw as in authentic and makes you feel something. Sad fishing Shan as usual.
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She saves the weekends for her spa days in Lidl

EXACTLY!! That is the definition of "raw". I don't think there is anything really raw about Shan's content. "Badly curated" is the best I can come up with.

 

[Dramallama2]

I don’t think she ever took George swimming either, I remember he mentioning it. He only goes now because it’s a class where she isn’t required in the pool and it’s an extra hour she doesn’t have to deal with him. We’ve never done classes but I’ve always took my little boy swimming from being really small, he absolutely loves it and it’s a really good way of bonding.

 

[ohsosweet]

I guess the plus of her sending him back for 4 days is that he's not plonked in front of the TV which is what was happening otherwise.

I think that’s why she overdoes the screen time at home because she justifies it to herself that he’s in childcare all day so screen time is fine, except that leaves no time for quality family time because as far as I can see, he eats all meals alone still whilst she dicks about on her phone. Though he doesn’t face the fall anymore, which is a bonus.