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Emsie
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George if you want to throw the beanbag please move to [insert safe space to throw] let me show you, throw it mummy, ah well done. Now you catch, good catch George you're good at this.
Problem solved.
If he won't stop throwing it it's George I'm going to take the beanbag because it's not safe to throw it near the food and drinks. [Insert tantrum] I know babe, you love throwing let's go over here and we can throw together.
Unfortunately both options mean she has to interact with G and that's where she fails at gentle parenting. Gentle parenting is about holding a firm boundary whilst empathising how hard it is to follow but staying consistent and providing the same message.
Problem solved.
If he won't stop throwing it it's George I'm going to take the beanbag because it's not safe to throw it near the food and drinks. [Insert tantrum] I know babe, you love throwing let's go over here and we can throw together.
Unfortunately both options mean she has to interact with G and that's where she fails at gentle parenting. Gentle parenting is about holding a firm boundary whilst empathising how hard it is to follow but staying consistent and providing the same message.
MrsHeather
Well-known member
What she saves on pull ups for George she spends on laundry detergent washing the wet bedding every dayThere is already a guy in her role who has been there a few months with no indication that he is on a secondment/maternity cover. More experienced than Shan. When/if she returns, they'll have to either offer that guy a new role or her.
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She gives her kids breadsticks and rice cakes for snacks instead of fruit, that's how!
Dramallama2
Well-known member
Only 10 mins into the vlog and the way she is talking to George and making horrible faces about him in the new vlog is absolutely VILE. How does anyone actually support this disgusting woman?! The minute he opened his eyes she’s snapping and snarling at him when he did absolutely nothing in the slightest to warrant it. All he wants is attention and love from her and she is SO cold towards him and has absolutely no patience for for anything he says or does. Genuinely have never witnessed a mother hate her own child in this way before, how are people supporting this mess of a woman?!! The flat faced bitch needs to have a serious look at herself. She constantly complains about his behaviour but the only person with serious behavioral issues is herself.
Puffin_island
VIP Member
If they are "screaming at" her, it's probably because they've tried not screaming to be listened to and it didn't work so it's perfectly natural for a child to start shouting to try be heard.
She's basically a giant toddler having a tantrum on the Internet every time she has to parent the children she chose to gave birth to
She's basically a giant toddler having a tantrum on the Internet every time she has to parent the children she chose to gave birth to
Puffin_island
VIP Member
I've just started watching a bit of her new vlog from this morning. I've probably only watched the first 15mins and I've lost count the number of times I've seen this face being pulled when George is saying anything.
I've just got to the bit where she's given G and H breakfast and left them both UNATTENDED so she can show us the cupboard she wants to declutter!!
I've just got to the bit where she's given G and H breakfast and left them both UNATTENDED so she can show us the cupboard she wants to declutter!!
sageandoak
Active member
How is this woman not more concerned about her son waking up and complaining his legs are hurting first thing. He needs to see a GP and be seen by a specialist. All he wants is a cuddle with his mummy and she’s just like look at Halle, let’s go downstairs you have to walk and I’ll carry Halle. Doesn’t even care.
MrsHeather
Well-known member
The amount she moans about being a mum you'd think she would want a few child free hours every evening. I love my babies and love being a mum, but come 7pm I need them in bed so I can have my alone time
Well this is interesting. He’s still only a beginner tradie with not much experience, also I don’t know what type of work he’s doing, but from his schedule it looks like he is employed by someone on regular basis (not working for himself) so I can’t imagine him making more than £180 a day, that would be just under 3k a month after tax. Is that really significantly more than Shan?She said in her recent budgeting video that she has always earnt more than Ash but now he's left the army he earns significantly more than she does but they still keep everything 50/50
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Also 50/50 split of expenses if one person is earning significantly more then the other sounds really unfairShe said in her recent budgeting video that she has always earnt more than Ash but now he's left the army he earns significantly more than she does but they still keep everything 50/50
I've not seen much of her content lately, but watched her vlog last night, then seen tonight's stories. What on earth is going on.
She's complaining about her bathroom being done? Seriously? Why on earth have they bought a house that needs work on it when she quite clearly cannot stand the fact it makes mess, it takes time, it is stressful with kids.
Heck we've done a full Reno around our 2. Yes it was difficult at times, but me and my husband chose for it to be this way. She honestly thinks it's all going to be done instantly doesn't she.
But jeez, you would think the entire house had collapsed inside with the way she is acting.
And tonight stories about going round to families so the adults can get a takeaway?? So yet another weekday night where G & H don't have a bedtime routine, they don't have stability, they will likely struggle with their sleep due to this, then she will moan and complain and claim she is being 'shouted at' by her tired kids. Oh poor you
She's complaining about her bathroom being done? Seriously? Why on earth have they bought a house that needs work on it when she quite clearly cannot stand the fact it makes mess, it takes time, it is stressful with kids.
Heck we've done a full Reno around our 2. Yes it was difficult at times, but me and my husband chose for it to be this way. She honestly thinks it's all going to be done instantly doesn't she.
But jeez, you would think the entire house had collapsed inside with the way she is acting.
And tonight stories about going round to families so the adults can get a takeaway?? So yet another weekday night where G & H don't have a bedtime routine, they don't have stability, they will likely struggle with their sleep due to this, then she will moan and complain and claim she is being 'shouted at' by her tired kids. Oh poor you
whatshernameagain_93
Active member
"cant lie, I've been feeling a little deflated recently".... Have you? Because you're churning out reels suggesting you've got it all *sussed*.
Shan make your mind up, also don't say it like she's finally admitting to a 'bit of reality' like she doesn't moan 24/7 it's so irritating. She hates her life it's so clear. She attempts to make it look glamorous but she isn't fooling anyone
Shan make your mind up, also don't say it like she's finally admitting to a 'bit of reality' like she doesn't moan 24/7 it's so irritating. She hates her life it's so clear. She attempts to make it look glamorous but she isn't fooling anyone
We’ve all surely been there at least once when a toddler/child falls asleep in their clothes and it’s pretty much bedtime anyway. You get them out their clothes, into PJs and brush their teeth, surely?! Even if it wakes them up and causes tears or a nightmare bedtime - stressful, sure, but that’s just how it is sometimes. I just absolutely cannot fathom not changing and brushing their teeth before bed.
samalambbxtch
Chatty Member
What I took from the vlog, she very clearly lets hallie cry herself to sleep.. that doesn’t sound very gentle parenting like!
George still wearing the same clothes from the day before… tell us you don’t wash your kid without telling us Shan.
that boys lack of routine is absolutely astounding, there’s no wonder at all he struggles with sleep.
it’s clear how exhasberated she sounds with George, there’s absolutely no way she would have been speaking to him that calmly without the camera there.
when they go out Shan is wearing 2 jackets, George a coat and Hallies in nothing, not even socks.
George still wearing the same clothes from the day before… tell us you don’t wash your kid without telling us Shan.
that boys lack of routine is absolutely astounding, there’s no wonder at all he struggles with sleep.
it’s clear how exhasberated she sounds with George, there’s absolutely no way she would have been speaking to him that calmly without the camera there.
when they go out Shan is wearing 2 jackets, George a coat and Hallies in nothing, not even socks.
sageandoak
Active member
She just doesn’t seem very loving towards him. Why not sit down with him, sit on the floor with both of them, give him some cuddles, rub his little legs even. Just show him you care Shan, all he wants is some affection from his mummy. Yes as parents we aren’t able to just sit all the time but sometimes our children just need love and attention.
I would be embarrassed to show anyone that video. Surely nobody is watching it thinking “what a good mummy”
I would be embarrassed to show anyone that video. Surely nobody is watching it thinking “what a good mummy”
Puffin_island
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Why does it feel like this is aimed at us?
Wedding rings on
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This is disgusting - saying her son is emotionally manipulating her?! The levels she is going to for views and attention are vile. Poor George might find all of this when he's older, rather than seeing things that say how much his mum loved him, all he will see is that she thought he was emotionally manipulative, difficult etc...poor poor child.
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I’m folding the washing and watching it and agree with you. It’s so disrespectful to make faces about him at the camera like that. He’s only three
.She’s harping on about not having time to do anything outside of cleaning the kitchen, folding washing away and then going for a walk and then making dinner. How she feels like she can’t get anything else done in the house. What she really wants is her children taken care of by someone else so she can dick about making YouTube videos and then clean and tidy without having to do the parent bit. Small children don’t leave you much time to tidy up! You have to do it as you go and expect your other half (if you have one) to share the load too. The fact she’s been a mother for almost four years and still doesn’t get that is really rather worrying.
graceanatomy
Chatty Member
The new job seems so much worse than the army situation. How is this an upgrade. He leaves and gets home so early/late that he's not there anyway. Is being a drive around repair man who has to leave the house before 5am really the best he could find after years and years in the army?
