Turned on the tv after my shift, caught part of segment about the BRF on BBC. They were talking about how along with others, William was also taking on Charles's duties along with his own engagements. Had the investiture ceremony today to recognise all the people who have done good things, the sort of engagement that should bring solace in the midst of troubled times (lovely way to put it). Also that the family had dealt with the situation well, shared main details yet kept everything else private. Sparry was mentioned - that he'd visited. The Pup started barking then so I missed out on what they were saying
I think it was something like there were hopes for a reconciliation but it was a short meeting - don't quote me on that though.
Yesterday also I got the feeling that there was a 'we hoped for a reconciliation but ....'.
I think one of the biggest problems is the invisible work they do that is not immediately obvious to people. It's the same with any job that doesn't only involve straight up physical labour, there will always be people complaining that unless they see a shovel moving, that person is not really working at all.
Most negative comments under any news story about the royals are about them doing nothing but cutting ribbons and eating free lunches wearing designer clothes. Even if we're not talking about royals per se, desk jobs and mental labour are not valued by some people. They also do not see how tiring in reality it is to attend events in formal wear, having to remember everyone's names, background, engage in conversation, look interested no matter what you are presented with, working to advance the issue you are promoting in that event, going from place A to B, then to C and D. It doesn't matter whether your arse is parked inside a luxury car or you're flying somewhere in business class, it's still not fun, it's work. You're tired, your legs and back ache, it's exhausting even if it's not the same as physical labour. And then that's only one part of it. People think royals have staff to do everything for them but if you are not a Harry but more like an Anne, you do the hours yourself and don't just rely on being quickly briefed while hurrying to some event. I'd love to see any of the complainers for example read all the boring documents Charles has to read at 2 am to be informed of all that goes on in the country and aware of the current legislation.
So, what they would have to do is make people see what it is that they actually do and how it makes a difference in people's lives. You can say royals have no place in modern society but then again, no tourist is going to visit a republic just to see a presidential palace and perhaps the parliament. Royals do have a place in supporting charities, working as a uniting figureheads that offer stability over long term without political leanings. I've also noticed the quality standards for many things are higher in monarchies compared to republics for historical reasons. Craftspeople for example had to strive to acquire royal warrant of appointment and you did not get there with shoddy work. This quality issue and the continuing traditions can be seen very clearly for example when talking about restoration of historical buildings; years ago I was living in a republic and they were renovating an old building. It didn't work out because "we just don't have the knowhow in this country for repairing this kind of thing" and a specialist had to be flown in from a country that still has a royal court. This all coming from someone who has observed the differences for decades having lived in both kinds of countries, monarchies and republics.
As long as people see royals as only useless handshakers cutting ribbons, they will want to get rid of them. I think Prince Philip had the right idea. I don't think I ever knew how much he influenced things until he passed away and I learned a lot more about the Duke of Edinburgh's Award and his work with environmental issues. Sorry for the long post, hope this makes sense at all!
You're right. Read a comment about Charles yesterday, that he's driven to an engagement or two, walks around for a bit, then needs a holiday. And the same for the other royals.
Most people don't understand how difficult a public-facing job is, which is why they're always so happy to harass those in such roles - cashiers, shop assistants, bank tellers, post officers, teachers etc. Sure, some aren't the best at their work or are rude, but can't really blame them when they're dealing with this ingratitude and entitlement on a daily basis. Would make anyone lose interest. And then the royals have the added burden of always having cameras on them - most not under their control. And everything goes on the internet to be circulated around the world forever.
These are the people who think that tourists come from all across the globe to "see some
crappy old buildings", and that the historical buildings should be turned into shopping malls or maybe shelters for the homeless (a noble cause, but even those places won't begin to address the problem).
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It remains to be seen just how long he will
i have mild IBS had it on and off since I was a child back in the 60’s it was call S p a s t i c
colon then (had space that word out as it came up with stars as it’s an offensive word )
Long long list of things I should not eat that made me a fussy eater in the end I ate what I liked knew what would set off I went years with no problems
Then 5 years ago bam
I don’t like spicy food so that’s good
I have found out by trial and error that I have a mild dairy intolerance so I have oatley Barista milk on cereal in cofffee which is yummy only cows milk in tea I have a actimal every day has to be flavoured one though
My oldest granddaughter was breast fed till a year old as a my daughter said it was free and no additives as soon as dairy was added she got really poorly got asthma tried soya milk no good
She had tests and it was a protein allergy
That is in soya too
She has grown out of it now but is careful with any thing that has dairy in as it can upset her tummy if she over indulges at a birthday party
Oddly she hates the taste of dairy cheese prefers what I call the plastic stuff
She is very lean but healthy
The specialist said our bodies can’t digest cows milk properly and it might not cause stomach problems but could cause other issues like skin rashes bloating headaches and joint problems
My doctors said years ago that I'm mildly lactose intolerant (can't have hot milk and hot milky desserts, but everything else I can have in small quantities. Covid robbed me of most of my love for cheese though), and can digest nutrients from animal sources better than plant sources. Quite a big problem in a country where many people are vegetarians. The number of arguments I've had with potential grooms who wanted me to become a vegetarian/vegan and wouldn't believe that it would be really harmful for me
As if our bodies aren't already troubled and stressed enough
I've come to realise though that this stubbornness has little to do with beliefs and more to do with control. Look at Ms Vegan (except on the weekends and on trips roasting chickens)
That eggy wedding menu tasting story always leaves me wondering how someone could tolerate her