Thanks
@JAR21 .... he is a psychopath. Absolutely. I chalked it up to that so there was no reasoning with him or trying to understand or predict his next move. Churchill said, I think, When you're going through hell, keep going. Now he cannot take me to court since my son turned 18. He went to his dad's at 15 to get him to get off my case, and it didn't work but he was then stuck there. Terrified of his father, completely intimidated, he just hunkered down. We all did. Now he is just riding it out until Uni in 6 months and then I think he will never speak to his father again. gut feel. Poor kid. He saw the Joker laughing incident and we laughed about it later, but he was worried that I had been frightened. I sometimes see him, casually strolling in front of my younger son's school when I do the school run (not his child) and when he should be at work, which is fucking creepy and I have mentioned it to the popo but they cannot do anything about it. it is always when there are loads of parents around, so I don't feel [too] scared.
The relentlessness of it all..... the outrageous lies, and tantrums (which apparently he still throws to this day), the threats, the blackmailing tactics ( he tried to get me audited 3x and then tried to get my parents audited). he sent emails to my parents that my poor mother misunderstood and thought he had killed me and my son. This triggered a ministroke. she was hospitalised but never fully recovered and it triffered a rather rapid neurological decline that she died of 5 years later.
All of that: That is Megsy to a T. I recognised it in how they behaved while PP was dying and while TQ was sick frail and dying.
and Hawwy doesn't have the grey matter to see it and protect the kids. He is facilitating and doubling down on this behaviour so any correctional opportunity is zero zilch and nonexistent. Those poor kids, if they exist (I am still camp Flatpack although the mythomentary did serve them up on a silver platter). It is one of the reasons (as well as putting us all out of our collective misery) that I find it infuriating that KC and the MiG et al are not replying in any way shape or form. and didn't released the bullying report.
Release the kraken, I say!!!!