Anyone ever heard of ‘parentification’?
I’ve added a definition down below but it also includes being spoken to and treated in a manner above your age. Like watching age inappropriate shows etc
Parentification occurs when a child is regularly expected to provide emotional or practical support for a parent, instead of receiving that support themselves. The role reversal of parentification can disrupt the natural process of maturing, causing long-term negative effects on a child's physical and mental health.