I mean I’ve never seen a trans vagina but apparently they can look and feel very realistic? I’m not too sure.
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I've never really watched Nikkie on YouTube but I also heard this. It makes me feel uncomfortable that she wouldn't tell her partner she was trans, I think that she should have told him when their relationship was getting serious.
They look like a vulva to a degree. But I know they have to constantly dilate as the body keeps rejecting it as it’s basically an open wound. I also have heard horror stories of balls of hair growing inside of it. They also need to be regularly cleaned and lubricated as they are very prone to infection but as it’s an artificial vagina of sorts it can’t self clean so they usually need to douche.
On another topic. I have noticed a trend of pedalo sympathisers online. I seen a woman defending a 30 something man who had slept with a 14 year old. With the excuses “she knew what she was doing” even though he’s a grown adult man. He’s literally the authority in the power dynamic. He’s the one who should be saying no. 14 year olds are not mentally mature enough to understand it’s wrong to have sex with adults and that adults who do it with them are bad people.
It’s also ridiculous all of us had crushes on adults when we were a teenager. People are quick to forget that.
I’m going to sound really dense here so I apologise but how do you mean they have to constantly dilate?
You know like women who have vaginal tightness and they get little different size dildos to try? Like that. They need to constantly stretch it out to keep the canal open.
It’s like a little plastic tube to keep the hole open. It’s sort of dildo shaped.
They have to do it once a day so it doesn’t close up. You know how piercings close after you take the piercing out? That’s the best thing I can compare it to.
I didn’t know that vaginal dilators were a thing. I’ve had a quick Google and some things about vaginal tightness make sense to me - I find sex, inserting tampons and having my smear tests really painful, the latter I’ve cried out in pain and she couldn’t finish the exam because it was excruciating.
As for trans people, I’ve found a website about the upkeep with having a man made vagina and it seems so intense and there are a lot of things that can go wrong.
Which is exactly why it’s not a surgery to decide to have on a whim.
She blocked me because I said I thought her having a pop at JK Rowling was uncalled for.
It’s basically an open wound that never heals and can get infected easily. Seen some real horror stories
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"Setting rules for how to address them" Who do you think you are?!
I know that I will absolutely be come at with pitchforks for saying it, but we move... does the fact that there are people out there willing to have surgery to *remove* their genitalia and fashion it into a permanently open wound, not show that the gender issue is indeed a serious mental health crisis? Like others have said, if gender were indeed a non-entity, why would the surgery even be on the cards? Why would men want to become women and women want to become men, if there was no such thing as either? What is essentially happening now is a trans woman can be identified as a woman, but biological women have to be seen as "people with vaginas" because otherwise they are transphobic. I do not understand how we now live in a society where mental health is such a prevalant issue, yet when it comes to gender, we aren't allowed to say there's a link, we instead have to say people are born into the wrong body. Even that in itself sounds absurd. I honestly think the very vast majority of people feel the same, they are just too bloody scared to be cancelled by the woke brigade.
I don't give a duck how you identify, what you wear, who you love. You do you. The issues are coming from the fact that trans or non-binary rights are now ascending that of non-trans/binary people whereby we can be visciously scrutinised for not being psychic and able to know how someone has chosen to identify themselves. If I look at a biological man and see a biological man, how is that any different to looking at a car and seeing a car? How the hell am I supposed to know the car wants to be referred to as a jumbo jet? If you ask me respectfully to address you in a different manner, then of bloody course I will. But if you aggressively tell me to conform to your mental illness because otherwise I'm the devil incarnate, then that's the issue. This attitude is actually causing far more animosity toward the community than actually ever existed.
Women have been trodden on by men for eons and now that we are finally getting some rights back, we are reduced to such a level where we aren't even allowed to be called women anymore. Oh and, again, from biological males. What a world we live in.
The madness of it all is no amount of surgery or hormones or telling yourself till you are blue in the face that you are the opposite sex, will ever actually make you the opposite sex. Wouldn't it be hugely more beneficial for your wellbeing to get mental health support to deal with that, than chopping your parts up and being passive aggressive with everyone? Why have we moved away from the fact that gender DOESN'T have to identify you, be feminine, be masculine, heck be both! Noone cares. For a community so against labels they are so insistent on giving them to themselves.
I don't give a duck how you identify, what you wear, who you love. You do you. The issues are coming from the fact that trans or non-binary rights are now ascending that of non-trans/binary people whereby we can be visciously scrutinised for not being psychic and able to know how someone has chosen to identify themselves. If I look at a biological man and see a biological man, how is that any different to looking at a car and seeing a car? How the hell am I supposed to know the car wants to be referred to as a jumbo jet? If you ask me respectfully to address you in a different manner, then of bloody course I will. But if you aggressively tell me to conform to your mental illness because otherwise I'm the devil incarnate, then that's the issue. This attitude is actually causing far more animosity toward the community than actually ever existed.
Women have been trodden on by men for eons and now that we are finally getting some rights back, we are reduced to such a level where we aren't even allowed to be called women anymore. Oh and, again, from biological males. What a world we live in.
The madness of it all is no amount of surgery or hormones or telling yourself till you are blue in the face that you are the opposite sex, will ever actually make you the opposite sex. Wouldn't it be hugely more beneficial for your wellbeing to get mental health support to deal with that, than chopping your parts up and being passive aggressive with everyone? Why have we moved away from the fact that gender DOESN'T have to identify you, be feminine, be masculine, heck be both! Noone cares. For a community so against labels they are so insistent on giving them to themselves.
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The Equality and Human Rights Commission has not renewed its membership of the Stonewall Diversity Champions Scheme.
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This week we received welcome news in a letter from Baroness Kishwer Falkner. The Equality and Human Rights Commission is no longer part of the controversial Stonewall Diversity Champions Scheme. She said that the Commission seeks to ensure that all staff enjoy “acceptance without exception”. We...
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I agree with what Sheridan Sinclair said - I'm looking forward to when Stonewall crashes and ends.
I'd feel far more comfortable working for a company that wasn't SDC certified than one that was.
I'd feel far more comfortable working for a company that wasn't SDC certified than one that was.
Shite take - but I’m not sure Nikki is entirely truthful about being trans lol I know she’s massive but she’s the same height as Gwendoline Christie, and I know women with big ass heads like that 
I would say she’s intersex with a vagina and whatever else, and was socialised as a male 
but it’s not as stunning and brave as being NB or MtF. I’d be convinced if she came out long before the trans lobby got their claws into the public consciousness. Of course she doesn’t owe us that information, it’s just very convenient timing, she only just came out last year. I was genuinely shocked at the time but that was when I was one of the fools who believed TWAW.
More like twit.
I would say she’s intersex with a vagina and whatever else, and was socialised as a male but it’s not as stunning and brave as being NB or MtF. I’d be convinced if she came out long before the trans lobby got their claws into the public consciousness. Of course she doesn’t owe us that information, it’s just very convenient timing, she only just came out last year. I was genuinely shocked at the time but that was when I was one of the fools who believed TWAW.More like twit.
What is interesting is that in the adult culture there is a move to not require transition because they've broken down the idea of biology meaning anything at all. But when it comes to the kids it's 'get them on the medical pathway or they'll die.'
On the article shared the other day on Stonewall - generally agree but I did struggle a bit with the remarks on asexuality being down to mental and/or physical problems. I think there are some people who say they are asexual where it might be due to a mental and/or physical problem but I don't think that's the case for everyone (I don't think it's the case for me for example). And even if it was, I think one of the arguments we need to advocate for is that, even if it is for some people, is this something that needs to be 'fixed'?
As someone else said, Nicky said she was being blackmailed about being trans. The rise of the trans movement (for lack of better words) might also be prompting outing people too. I wouldn’t be surprised if that were the case.Shite take - but I’m not sure Nikki is entirely truthful about being trans lol I know she’s massive but she’s the same height as Gwendoline Christie, and I know women with big ass heads like that
More like twit.
True! I have no beef with her or genuine trans people, I’m just here side-eyeing the clearly male fetishists who demand to be allowed into women’s spaces, and I get sad and frustrated when women come out as trans or NB. Feels like the population only can be male women and invisible women.
You should speak to a doctor or nurse about these things as they shouldn’t hurt this much
Gaslighting pricks. It’s all about gender identity now, and they’re piggybacking on what once was a legit LGB organisation. Ugh.
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As I've mentioned before on these threads I belong to an LGBT social group who are generally good people but very much worship at the altar of gender. In our WhatsApp group we discussed vaccine side-effects and reports of very painful/heavy periods after the vaccine. One of the group who is a transman mentioned that she has not had a period in over a year because of taking hormones ... so basically, in her mid-20s she has gone through self-induced menopause. I'm sure this won't cause any problems for her in later life ...
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