I do remember the drama when Jane's mother died. The fact that Jane had to drive her spoilt daughter across the country just when her own mother died instead of Gabbie taking the train is utterly selfish. Now it seems like she won't even go to her other grandmother's funeral because she's "poorly" again? Why not take some pain medication, take the train, attend the service, make small talk with some relatives for an hour then leave if she really cannot stand them? That's the mature and polite thing to do. Instead she's festering in her flat binging Netflix again.