It bothers me the mixed messages she is sending out to vulnerable mums. She just COULDN’T possibly leave them for 2 nights in a row, yet leaves them every other day for me time
(nothing wrong with me time, but don’t make out you’re so hard done by when you always leave them!)
I’m leaving my breastfed 11 month old for 2 nights soon to go away for my best friends hen do. I’ve been worrying about it for months and to be honest if it was a different friend I probably wouldn’t have gone, but I know she will not understand so I’m just going for a shorter time, everyone else is staying for 3 nights. I know he’ll be fine with his dad and we have family close by but I still feel really guilty despite the fact I haven’t had a proper night out since he was born. And my eldest is almost 4 and still has separation anxiety (he’s autistic) so between the pair of them even having a bath or a shower alone is hard work!
Yet Fopps is able to leave them left right and centre but make out she can’t even bear to be away from them, give me a break. Just own it.
I’m probably just sensitive due to being anxious about being away but I’m sure I can’t be the only one.