Fathering Autism #9 Eat and Travel as much as we wanna, we're spreading awareness and Corona

[Hotographer512]

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I wish we could read the entire post as well as the replies.
His reply doesn't make sense without the entire post.
But it is another example if him replying to "bad" posts while the gushes of love go unnoticed.

 

[ICAAC]

My thing is, I honestly gave up the Gossip site's years ago and probably won't bash any other youtuber on here aside from maybe Onision because I actually promised myself that I wouldn't get THAT involved in another online 'celeb' life because it was pretty pointless after awhile BUT if posting my thoughts here allows me to join you in advocating for Abbie and making those dipshits understand her better, I can sort of justify this one.

I am just glad they're actually listening to her now and that's because I'm sure of you lovely people. At least they finally PAID ATTENTION to her shake her head 'no' this time. I felt so bad that she was scared because she's never actually allowed to say no. It's true, since they unteach Abbie every life skill she learns intentional or not, why not just no longer allow her to express it since you only seem to allow it when your 'haters' call you out and you read here.

ASSa let me tell you something, you're a 'we try everything once' family. How about we try a 'yes' and 'no' button on the iPad? How about you listen to her when she can CLEARLY be heard vocalizing the word 'no' to you for appropriate things? How about YOU Mr. #1 Autism expert....try I dunno maybe 'knowing your own kid' it's this simple thing where you know she does not enjoy those things, we all know! Why are you making her do these things? Can you name ONE thing that would be considered 'thrill seeking' of an activity that she's tried that she did like?

I guess you wouldn't know how to listen to your child, did you miss that Vid-con pannel? You would think with 90% of family vloggers ignoring their children that it would be an obvious choice for an amazing pannel.....of course none of the youtube vlogging families would be allowed to speak on the subjects of how to balance both, no you get to sit in and listen to a panel of child specialists who can tell you the effects of shaming, extorting, ignoring your kids for youtube.

 

[GrammaL]

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The tide is slowly but surely turning on them. When they went all out a few months back to becoming money hungry arses,some like myself stopped watching( wasn’t a regular to begin with). And this past week,withthe extended travel when emergency orders went into affect pushed some right over that aren’t there before.

 

[VickyIsAwesome]

Do they ever not stay at home?

 

[lovesis]

Their fans are such brainwashed idiots. Like wow I’m so happy to be here on this forum than to be kissing the ass of these scamming slobs.

 

[Cranky Insomniac]

Man, I hate to say this but it would be best for them to send Abbie to a care facility to live at when she turns 18, she should go now. She would thrive so well without them.

I was just going to write something similar. I understand it is not a popular opinion but Ab doesn't "care". She would do better in a structured environment with 24/7 care.

 

[Kermy]

You forgot to add one thing to the did art with her....that they then sold it at an overinflated price misrepresented as being made by Abbie when crazy nanny dud 99.99% of the work

I'm trying to figure out , what did I write to merit an angry face....

 

[Stripe69]

I'm not so sure anyone on here talks tit.
To me it's more like we are stating facts and the truth the way we see it.
I can't speak for everyone nor do I want to but I will say this:
Facts are facts. Opinions are opinions. This place is a good mixture of both, I think.
Expressing facts and opinions does not mean that we suck. Even if we talk about Abbie.
I am a hell of a lot better person than those hambeasts who exploit Abbie and I will go as far as to say that so is everyone here.
It's fine to disagree, have your own opinions etc.
Just don't insult peoples integrity.
If Assa and had one ounce of integrity, then this forum wouldn't be here.
So insulting them doesn't count/ apply.

I agree entirely. Well said

 

[Tellall]

IMO today’s vlog was only to brag...Ugh I CANNOT stand ASSa and Cilla!

 

[Maidengirl]

Has anyone noticed that asshat is looking somewhat sheepish these days! Not so much eye contact (via the camera) less stupid giggling and fewer snide comments in general!? Or am I just imagining things!?

 

[ICAAC]

I just wanted to share a video with you guys, it's kind of interesting. I have watched all 8 seasons of House MD at least twice and while I KNOW that it's a TV show and should not be taken as a fact that this is how she see's the world, I'd like to believe that Abbie sort of sees and hears things in her world the way this kid did on the show. In my head, this is what I choose to believe. He understands everything they say, he just can't answer in a way THEY understand. The parents in this episode the whole time, especially the Father were yelling at this kid for not doing what they wanted with communication when he was actually trying to express something was wrong. Those sqiggles he was drawing were eye worms, he was seeing the worms wiggling around his eye and was trying to draw them. He ate some sand from the sandbox that an animal tit in.

The episode was about a non-verbal autistic boy who's parents were extremely successful and then she got pregnant with him and he got diagnosed with Autism so they had to quit their jobs to stay home with him. Dr. House, if you aren't familiar with him is an ass but an amazing doctor and the side plot was he never made connections with the patients so in the end, the kid gives him the game and keeps it until the very last season even though they never see the kid again.

After finding their channel like I told you guys before, I went back to this episode immediately just thinking to myself 'I wonder if that's how their commands sound to her?' even though nobody will ever know for sure, it still makes you wonder and man, even watching that episode when they do the kid's POV and shake the camera for head shaking, THAT makes me dizzy. I can't imagine how dizzy and probably painful at times it must be for her when she does that and then stops. I only posted that video because that's actually one of the first TV show's that I think has ever done a POV from the Autistic person. Even House raised more awareness years ago in an hr episode then these people do on a daily basis.

 

[Pink Marshmallow]

I actually disagree. She is still physically a 14/15 year old with the hormones of a 14/15 year old. Shes gonna get feelings and reactions. Not saying she will understand it or anything like that, but her body will react like the teenager she is.

Playing devil's advocate here, so, would it be better to not have any physical contact with her then? I see what you're saying about having hormones etc, maybe the wrestling is crossing the line, but are we saying that they should have minimal physical contact to avoid a 'hormonal reaction'?

 

[Hotographer512]

I'm trying to figure out , what did I write to merit an angry face....

Nothing.
You post was 100% correct.

 

[Baymaus]

I'm not so sure anyone on here talks tit.
To me it's more like we are stating facts and the truth the way we see it.
I can't speak for everyone nor do I want to but I will say this:
Facts are facts. Opinions are opinions. This place is a good mixture of both, I think.
Expressing facts and opinions does not mean that we suck. Even if we talk about Abbie.
I am a hell of a lot better person than those hambeasts who exploit Abbie and I will go as far as to say that so is everyone here.
It's fine to disagree, have your own opinions etc.
Just don't insult peoples integrity.
If Assa and had one ounce of integrity, then this forum wouldn't be here.
So insulting them doesn't count/ apply.

I interpret any comments made about Abbie and her difficulties as being about her parents, who continually fail her.
And while this is not a support website, there are people here who have disabled family members. One of the hardest things I've had to deal with as the siblings of a disabled brother is that I'm not allowed to say it like it is about him. My parents tried to help him and then, when they got to the point where nothing seemed to help, they starting beating/hounding him to finish his schoolwork so he would finish school. I witnessed what happened and I have nightmares to this day.
I started watching FA because as hard as things are and have been, I want to be good to my brother. And then they changed and made it very clear that they didn't really care about any of their fans, maybe especially those who were dealing with Autism themselves. So being here has given me a sense of not being alone and not wondering if I am seeing things. We don't all agree on every issue, but we do agree that something is up.
Having a place to be able to be real about A&P is important for anyone who has watched their vlog and realized A&P are deceitful. Having a place for autism families and people who have autism they let down is just gravy.

 

[GrammaL]

If Moobman spent as much time on helping Abbie to develop more skills,not steal food,etc. as he does vlogging,spouting half truths,etc. imagine how much better she could be( and no,not thinking anything major,but am sure smaller goals can be achieved).
Instead,tonight he is posting what he feels are teuths( they are not) w dates and all about the timing of their Georgia trip!

What he left out,is at the time of their trip,Georgia had already had at the ,East,1 death from the virus! The State of Emergency was declared as they got there.

As to their fanatics,they are just as bad as all the cult members who need to latch on to something to make them feel good,justify their lives,fill a void some where.

When people start proclaiming such adoration for someone they don’t know-that’s a fanatic.
When they attack others for stating their views for people they only know through a website-that’s a rabid fanatic.
And yes,I will speak “ill”of Moobman and his whiny wife! They put themselves out there,brought the attention onto themselves. If they wanted bliss and peace,they should have just gone about their business like most other people.

 

[Stripe69]

Their fans are such brainwashed idiots. Like wow I’m so happy to be here on this forum than to be kissing the ass of these scamming slobs.

On tonight’s vlog one of the cult said “ you don’t need to justify yourselves to your true followers” really ?
Arsewipe is being his usual arrogant self and Summer is being super irritating again. These idiots really need bringing down a peg or two.
I find it really interesting that all the hundreds of comments he gets mean nothing to him but negative comments really get to him. His ego just can’t take it. We all know he watches here as he responds immediately with comments on his vlog or features all our points made.
Well Arsewipe, we don’t like you or your vlogs and we are growing in numbers. How will your ego cope with that.
P.s. did you get the bra

 

[ICAAC]

I'm trying to figure out , what did I write to merit an angry face....

That was me! I gave the angry face but it wasn't directed at you, it was directed at them stealing that woman's art for profit! Does the angry face get taken account on your reactions? I'm only a few hours new to this site, I can remove it if it does.

 

[Pink Marshmallow]

I interpret any comments made about Abbie and her difficulties as being about her parents, who continually fail her.
And while this is not a support website, there are people here who have disabled family members. One of the hardest things I've had to deal with as the siblings of a disabled brother is that I'm not allowed to say it like it is about him. My parents tried to help him and then, when they got to the point where nothing seemed to help, they starting beating/hounding him to finish his schoolwork so he would finish school. I witnessed what happened and I have nightmares to this day.
I started watching FA because as hard as things are and have been, I want to be good to my brother. And then they changed and made it very clear that they didn't really care about any of their fans, maybe especially those who were dealing with Autism themselves. So being here has given me a sense of not being alone and not wondering if I am seeing things. We don't all agree on every issue, but we do agree that something is up.
Having a place to be able to be real about A&P is important for anyone who has watched their vlog and realized A&P are deceitful. Having a place for autism families and people who have autism they let down is just gravy.

I think you SHOULD be able to talk about the difficult aspects of it. It's not easy for people to hear, especially if they are your family/loved ones. So, it's good that there's a forum like this to talk about things. Yes, the main focus is the YT'er we're discussing but a part of that discussion is sharing personal experiences especially if they relate to the subject of the thread.

If Moobman spent as much time on helping Abbie to develop more skills,not steal food,etc. as he does vlogging,spouting half truths,etc. imagine how much better she could be( and no,not thinking anything major,but am sure smaller goals can be achieved).
Instead,tonight he is posting what he feels are teuths( they are not) w dates and all about the timing of their Georgia trip!

What he left out,is at the time of their trip,Georgia had already had at the ,East,1 death from the virus! The State of Emergency was declared as they got there.

As to their fanatics,they are just as bad as all the cult members who need to latch on to something to make them feel good,justify their lives,fill a void some where.

When people start proclaiming such adoration for someone they don’t know-that’s a fanatic.
When they attack others for stating their views for people they only know through a website-that’s a rabid fanatic.
And yes,I will speak “ill”of Moobman and his whiny wife! They put themselves out there,brought the attention onto themselves. If they wanted bliss and peace,they should have just gone about their business like most other people.

It's like the saying goes, the proof is in the pudding. Ass-hat can keep SAYING he's bringing awareness and education about autism etc.. but the fact that Abbie is regressing and that A&P are doing next to nothing to help her, speaks volumes about what is really going on. As it's been said before, they rely on the school and Brandy to be teaching Abbie and then thinking they don't really have to continue that over at home. Really, one of the only times I see Asa put some effort into working on Abbie's behaviors is if she's done something which inconveniences or annoys him.

 

[cucumber]

Today's vlog:
it's become a look at me I'm rich video! Look at all my vacations and rich hotel rooms and all I get to do!
And....does Summer sleep with them in the same hotel room? I dont care what anyone says...that's weird. Doesnt she have her own family or friends???

IMO today’s vlog was only to brag...Ugh I CANNOT stand ASSa and Cilla!

EXACTLY

 

[GrammaL]

Playing devil's advocate here, so, would it be better to not have any physical contact with her then? I see what you're saying about having hormones etc, maybe the wrestling is crossing the line, but are we saying that they should have minimal physical contact to avoid a 'hormonal reaction'?

Not at all. A hug,holding her hand,a high five,all good and ways to show affection. The heavy duty things such as wrestling need to stop. She can not distinguish between right or wrong per se,so when they wrestle w her,she may think it’s okay to do so w strangers,etc. A very dangerous game. Or,when she ages,and her strength develops,she may attempt this behavior and seriously hurt her parents,Summer, Becca,etc. Think of a typical child who gets caught up w the rough housing w a parent. After a bit,parent says no more. The young child is now so wound up( wife warned him) and won’t quit. Parent now upset,child doesn’t understand why,now it’s done. Imagine Abbie who can’t absorb any of that at all!

And,I will word this carefully here. Isiah is a young man. Between 12- even now,HIS hormones are raging as well. He can’t stop his body from reacting to situations either. He knows she is is sister,but when caught up in a frenzy from the one on one physical contact,his body may not.

Same can be said about Summer/he. While Moobman and wifey constantly state she is like a sister to Isiah,thing is,Isiah KNOWS she is not and may through the years had deeper feelings than just sister/brother,and not understood it.