Fathering Autism #83 A tiki bar and “all the things” A maassive hammock held up by string

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So, I have feelings about this whole situation but I didn't say anything because we were in the middle of lesbiangate. I lost respect for Emily because her and Asshat laughed at Donna after she turned to leave. You have to really watch for it and my screenshots didn't come out to clear but I believe Emily and Ass were laughing at Donna behind her back.View attachment 535525so there is emily getting her plateView attachment 535528
And there is the smirk :cry::mad:
I was thinking about Donna yesterday too. I didn’t notice the laughing at her. But I wondered why in that group no one helped her. (Unless they did off camera) But that Asshole just keeps filming her carrying that heavy plate she could have dropped. Donna looks so frail and pale. I wonder how caring and helpful Asa’s Dad is to her.
 
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I wish that I could present you with the award of the year. That was feckin' brilliant👏👏👏👏👏👏👏


This isn't Becca. This is Kaitlyn and Kaidale. Welcome to your new rabbit hole



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She had to "get certs reinstated"??? So....she was working with nursing and other CEU's that expired or lapsed??? Maybe...probably why she hasn't been working as of late!
Wonder if she was laid off until her certs were up to date or if she took the time off to update!
 
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Pretty Please! ❤
With a cherry on top.
A real one..
Not like the one on that Selfie Wrld sundae A maassive or two has probably already slobbered on.

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ETA???? Does anyone here have the ability to DM? ?
I don't....I just figured it was taken away for being naughty at one point. Have tried dm'ing you several times. Nada...
 
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I was thinking about Donna yesterday too. I didn’t notice the laughing at her. But I wondered why in that group no one helped her. (Unless they did off camera) But that Asshole just keeps filming her carrying that heavy plate she could have dropped. Donna looks so frail and pale. I wonder how caring and helpful Asa’s Dad is to her.
When she was trying to put the risotto in the white serving platter, shaking and struggling, Asshat commented on the risotto, took an up closes shot of her struggling, then smirked with his sister after Donna turned to leave. Jumpcut to Piggy and her plate summer disappointed in the background piggy smirking and bleeping Asshat follows Donna with his camera out of the kitchen, back to a millisecond of piggy laughing. Sorry...this just really pisses me off.
 
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Very strange they did not put a post on social media that there would be no vlog last night. By the way, If you go down the page and click the "contact us" link - there is a little blurb on the left hand side with an e-mail address. I had to contact that way and received a very timely response.
I did not realize that the email actually works. I tried to contact them a while back, got no response. I can't even remember what I tried to email them for. But most likely it was for getting reported for nothing. Thank you, that was helpful ❤
Now that I think about it, they do seem to have a tendency of not communicating with the fans or stans or leg humpers or whatever the heck you want to call them. Remember these are the same people who wanted to have a podcast and just stopped entirely for no apparent reason. Last week Piggy didn't put up Cillas slop and crap. I am sure that Assa had a video already he just probably didn't want to monitor the comments. He's a lazy SOB.
 
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Couldn't finish watching. She just seems to drone on and on and on.....😴
You got to start putting the speed at 1.5x or higher. It makes her speeches go a lot quicker. It works really well too when Assa babbles on about nothing, but for him I usually go 2.0x.
Just speed up, the vlogs are more tolerable.
 
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Guillermo really needs to stop putting his hands and body on little girls.
It seems to be either a pattern or a very bad habit with him.
He is a total weirdo.
That whole group is.
Good God! She’s straddling him. You do NOT DO THAT!!! Where are her parents
 
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Good God! She’s straddling him. You do NOT DO THAT!!! Where are her parents
I have pretty much concluded that the parents of these kids that let these fuking weirdos babysit their "special needs" kids, just do not give a tit.
They are probably hard pressed to find ANYONE to babysit and will just obviously leave them with anyone.
Gulliermo really seems to be the strangest of the group, with Summer being a close 2nd.
I wouldn't trust any of them with my NT kids, much less a non verbal IDD kid who can't tell what happens.
People just suck.
 
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The size of that arm!!!
If you look carefully, our girl Crystals arm accidently brishes against Pigfucklers gunt when she rushes toward her. And Pig blushes.

I did not realize that the email actually works. I tried to contact them a while back, got no response. I can't even remember what I tried to email them for. But most likely it was for getting reported for nothing. Thank you, that was helpful ❤
Now that I think about it, they do seem to have a tendency of not communicating with the fans or stans or leg humpers or whatever the heck you want to call them. Remember these are the same people who wanted to have a podcast and just stopped entirely for no apparent reason. Last week Piggy didn't put up Cillas slop and crap. I am sure that Assa had a video already he just probably didn't want to monitor the comments. He's a lazy SOB.
I think he's gradually weening the legshlumpers off of Ab videos.
 
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I was thinking about Donna yesterday too. I didn’t notice the laughing at her. But I wondered why in that group no one helped her. (Unless they did off camera) But that Asshole just keeps filming her carrying that heavy plate she could have dropped. Donna looks so frail and pale. I wonder how caring and helpful Asa’s Dad is to her.
He probably helped her with her plate. I think I remember him doing the same at Christmas dinner I think it was.
 
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Abbie has higher (or high) support needs.

Firstly, using language like "low functioning" serves to dehumanize an autistic person. It reduces the person to something that is "broken" or not as deserving of the same human decency as a non-autistic person.
Look at the way Abbie's parents treat her - they talk about her as though she isn't there, they squeal and baby talk, they parade her around like a sideshow attraction, they don't give her privacy or proper tools to communicate...
What are some words we've seen used here and on other sites about Abbie? Words that focus on the stigma of her level of "functioning?"

There's a wealth of scientific study going back decades on the use of language in dehumanization and the effects that language can have on marginalized people or groups. Using language to dehumanize never ends well for vulnerable people.

The discussion around using functioning labels is that it makes it difficult to meet the individual needs of autistic people.
Someone who is called "high functioning" is often viewed as not needing much support in, say, a school or work environment. A "high functioning" child in school is assumed to be nothing more than mildly quirky. Maybe they have a hard time making friends, or they're a little shy.
A person called "low functioning" is generally assumed to be a lump of flesh with no "normal" capabilities.

The more accurate way, and the current diagnostic method, is to focus on the individual's need for support in various environments.
To use my younger child as an example - my child has higher support needs. My child can communicate verbally. Their vocabulary is fantastic - well above grade level - and they pronounce words quite well for their age. In ten minute bursts my child might appear "high functioning" to a casual observer who doesn't know us. In reality, though, my child only speaks to get their needs met or to "lecture" at people about their special interest. They cannot hold a conversation. Their use of language beyond scripted dialogue regarding a special interest and a handful of social niceties they've elected to use is highly atypical and is largely indecipherable unless I'm there to help translate. I even have to translate to my partner. My child cannot write, cannot spell even basic kindergarten level words (writing, typing, verbally, nothing), cannot reliably toilet or dress themself, is highly sensitive to noise and smells, has periodic bouts of elopement, and a host of other areas where they need extensive support. They receive speech and occupational therapy, intervention (i.e. special ed) services, as well as play-based psychological support (largely due to medical trauma & extreme anxiety). When my child is getting the support they need, they are able to learn at grade level and with modifications (most notably, right now, a scribe - or someone to transcribe their spoken answers) can complete all grade-level schoolwork.

Fifteen years ago my child would have been labeled "low functioning" and may never have been able to reach the milestone's they're currently achieving.

On the flip side, my older child has lower support needs. I didn't even realize they were autistic until my younger was diagnosed, and our neurologist said "hey, um..."
I assumed that Older Child's idiosyncrasies were from the ADHD diagnosis. Nope, not all of them! With some support my older child does just fine. They need frank discussion about social norms and using proper manners. They are very sensitive to certain fabrics and textures. They need frequent breaks to physically stim. I have to constantly stay on top of monitoring frustration levels in non-preferred activities. They need a very clear plan/schedule for the day's activities and a walkthrough of what to expect in new situations. They have a catastrophically short attention span outside of preferred activities. They don't require speech or OT, and for right now they meet with a psychiatrist quarterly to check in and to refill ADHD meds. They're able to work well above grade level in school - I homeschool since they don't require specialist support - as long as they have access to fidgets, movement breaks, flexible class scheduling, and prompting to stay on task. Also, Vyvanse.
If you just called my older child "high functioning," one would expect them to just be a little "weird." We're all proudly weird in this house, but my child does need support to do their best in a school environment or in the community. They don't have the same needs as a typical, non-autistic student. Reducing my child to a functioning label doesn't allow for the reality that they do have support needs!


Here's an article about different ways terms like "functioning" and "support" are used:
Well explained!
 
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Tonight's Vlog:


Thanks. Straight snooze fest. 💤💤I regret watching it because even on double speed it’s 7 min of my life I can’t get back. That backyard is cluttered and shows they have no class. I love Crystal and Emily though. ❤❤❤
 
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I bet they were so proud of their sponsorship of yesterday’s event. I remember Ass saying they were sponsoring this event. There is a HUGE difference in sponsoring and being one of the sponsors. They think they are so so special.

I am not sure they have been before or they would have made a much bigger effort, more than plastic grass and a blow up palm tree.

Here is the lower tiers of sponsorship. I imagine they didn’t kick any money above what she was given.

such posers
 

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For anyone thinking that this is going to be about The Golden Boy's new condo......
PSYCH IT ISN'T!!!!

Isaiah's turtle got a stupid little pond in the back yard. It looks like a glorified kiddie pool to me.

I totally don't understand the description for this video. He talks about the turtle and then it seems like he's talking about Abbie. I don't understand.
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His content is so lame, they were talking about trapper keepers, TRAPPER KEEPERS!! He thinks only millennials use them, but we were rocking them back in the 80s. He's such a freaking moron.
 
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For anyone thinking that this is going to be about The Golden Boy's new condo......
PSYCH IT ISN'T!!!!

Isaiah's turtle got a stupid little pond in the back yard. It looks like a glorified kiddie pool to me.

I totally don't understand the description for this video. He talks about the turtle and then it seems like he's talking about Abbie. I don't understand.
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His content is so lame, they were talking about trapper keepers, TRAPPER KEEPERS!! He thinks only millennials use them, but we were rocking them back in the 80s. He's such a freaking moron.
I think half the time, Asshat just vomits up a bunch of words and hopes that it makes him sound intelligent or like a "deep thinker".
But WE know the truth... don't we, Ass?

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***Edited to add, it's probably MORE than half the time!
 
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