Asa did a vlog, showing how he basically ‘sits’ on Abbie to calm her down when she is having an out of control tantrum, so she is probably confused with Isa’s ‘hugs’ as that is part of the way Assa controls Abbie. Don’t get me wrong, I had to (for a short time) put my NT daughter into a headlock, to give her antibiotics, because she would spit it out, refuse to open her mouth etc, and she had constant ear infections so antibiotics were needed. Luckily, she ‘grew’ out of it, and understood that she needed to take medication to ‘get’ better. Abbie doesn’t have that comprehension, so probably finds it hard to determine hugs as love, and a grapple hug to force her into complying. JMOThey must get off on the sadistic play between Abbie and Isaiah.
Why encourage that?
I always discouraged mine from sadistically tormenting each other.
So did most of the other moms.
Normal people don't encourage that bullshit.
They are vile through and through.
IMO.
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