Wasn’t that the stuff that Abbie was eating last week and Asa let her.I thought she did. Yeah i thought it was gross that P touched Sandy's face after eating the fertilizer ewww
Wasn’t that the stuff that Abbie was eating last week and Asa let her.I thought she did. Yeah i thought it was gross that P touched Sandy's face after eating the fertilizer ewww
I know it was potting soil. Not sure if they had added the fertilizer in then. But the ingredients on the bag of the soil they used had chicken waste in it which is chicken poop.Wasn’t that the stuff that Abbie was eating last week and Asa let her.
I tried looking it up and it’s extremely confusing. But when A&P talk about it in their vlogs for parents looking for help getting care and funding they always come off as they know the skinny (only skinny they know lol) on how to get every agency to pay top dollar. I mean the lemmings think they are being nice offering help but to me they come off sounding sleazy as like we know how to con every agency out of funds! Rubs hands together and both laugh like evil villains.I don't know if the rules are different in FL, but here you don't have to be severe to get respite care. I do respite for my sister and she's only borderline...age 23 with about a 5 or 6 year old mentality. Sometimes it has to do with behavior issues, which is obviously something Abbie deals with.
I think so Stripe69Wasn’t that the stuff that Abbie was eating last week and Asa let her.
Isn’t it great how all these you tubers put their vlogs out there and are allowed to say and do pretty much what they like but when viewers post a comment they don’t like , they can just delete it thus giving the impression that all the comments they receive are positive.I asked NickyTv if their son is considered severely autistic like Abbie. I said I assumed he isn’t because I don’t see them using respite like Fathering Autism.
I’m pretty sure my comment got deleted.
They are leghumpers so maybe they were offended.
When Abbie was first placed on the waitlist, she would have had to qualify based on her disability. Her IDD would have actually immediately qualified her. If she just had Autism as a dx, she would have had many more hurdles to overcome to qualify. They usually use a baseline of daily living scores done through a psychologist and they have to be lower functioning, in so many areas...I tried looking it up and it’s extremely confusing. But when A&P talk about it in their vlogs for parents looking for help getting care and funding they always come off as they know the skinny (only skinny they know lol) on how to get every agency to pay top dollar. I mean the lemmings think they are being nice offering help but to me they come off sounding sleazy as like we know how to con every agency out of funds! Rubs hands together and both laugh like evil villains.
To be fair I bet Pigzilla was probably thinking about how to incorporate chicken tit in her next really healthy recipeShe did. But, earlier in the vlog Asa makes a big deal over the dogs eating the chicken tit fertilizer and what does Big P do? Let that damn Sandy jump all over her and then grab her face and rub all over the tit eating dog.
What part of "the dog is eating the chicken tit" did she not understand??
Nasty heifer.
Someone’s bitchy tonight Assa go get a job if you can’t stand constructive criticism, you didn’t expect the crap you have being dishing out lately to win you new fans surely? What’s there to go ‘viral’ over Abbie beingpushed around the neighbourhood on a $1000 bike? Seriously smh when you guys moved into your new house, and content went straight down the toilet!no words
I don’t think they shower her anymore, they are letting pool time take care of that.Well we saw the nighttime routine today. I didnt hear about any bath or shower ......
How do you know? Based on the vlog, he had to ask Ab if she wanted to use the velcro pics to brush her teeth. Everything seemed like a new approach w/ teaching her. Even the face care was discussed like it was a new procedure. Her teeth are never brushed properly & not flossing is NOT ok.
Her 2 front teeth looked terribly pushed in from her tight top lip in yesterday’s vlog. I can’t see them lasting very long.
When they were planting she tasted the organic soil that had fertilizer in it. It wasn't dangerous and did not harm her at all. People acted like she was shoveling the soil in as some people are saying...it was a small amount of potting soil. If getting soil/fertilizer in your mouth killed you, I'd be dead. I have it all over me every spring and summer, and so do millions of other human beings.Abbie ate the fertilizer? i must have missed that but that's just i can't lol
OMG....it ain't gonna kill anyone! Eggs also have chicken tit on them and I have them sittin' in a bowl on my counter! Ya'll trying to make a big deal out of something that is NOT a big deal. I can tell you 100's of things much more dangerous that probably many of you use daily!I know it was potting soil. Not sure if they had added the fertilizer in then. But the ingredients on the bag of the soil they used had chicken waste in it which is chicken poop.
as my wife just said, summer’s issue is that she’s just extremely immature.Because her claim to fame is that she is Ab,s bff. She’s a spotlight hog.
Good jobThe latest vlog really makes it so clear how profoundly IDD Abbie is. And how very much Assssa is either in denial or lying to everyone. (Personally I vote for lying)
He keeps talking about independence. There is no way in hell Abbie will ever live independently. Every small task she is able to do needs someone standing over her and giving her directions step by step.
He had to tell her to move the toothbrush around because she was just holding it in one place in her mouth. For crying out loud.
And I dont say these things to be mean or in anyway make fun of her. But its fact. It's just the way it is.
So I again repeat (as so many of us have said)....Stop with matching colors! Stop with teaching her transactions with money, for lords sake! Stop with having her find a Brown leaf!
Teach her as much personal hygiene stuff as you can. Teach it, teach it, teach it and dont get lazy because it becomes tedious....or messy. Get her outta that diaper. Teach her to wash herself. Brush teeth. Possibly get
dressed.
Teach her not to yell and grunt and flail around when she's at a public place. The hell with "oh but its suppressing her stims" Heck, theres things all people in general no matter who you are...that you cant do in public. It's just the way it works.
Assssa...if you give a damn about your 2nd daughter's life you will get off your big ass and work in the things that will make a difference to Abbie's life. Matching colors ain't gonna change 1 thing for her.
And for Gods sake teach her to keep her clothes on. Ya might wanna start that by not allowing her naked in the pool.
Oh, and quit lying. She ain't ridin' the bike. And you know that.
This post said everything I was feeling about Abbie. She needs help with her activities of daily life - not being pushed around on a bike she will NEVER learn how to ride. Her birthday gifts should have been like the gifts Asa’s parents gave her. Young children musical toys..that’s what she really enjoys. I wish they would stop making her what she isn’t.The latest vlog really makes it so clear how profoundly IDD Abbie is. And how very much Assssa is either in denial or lying to everyone. (Personally I vote for lying)
He keeps talking about independence. There is no way in hell Abbie will ever live independently. Every small task she is able to do needs someone standing over her and giving her directions step by step.
He had to tell her to move the toothbrush around because she was just holding it in one place in her mouth. For crying out loud.
And I dont say these things to be mean or in anyway make fun of her. But its fact. It's just the way it is.
So I again repeat (as so many of us have said)....Stop with matching colors! Stop with teaching her transactions with money, for lords sake! Stop with having her find a Brown leaf!
Teach her as much personal hygiene stuff as you can. Teach it, teach it, teach it and dont get lazy because it becomes tedious....or messy. Get her outta that diaper. Teach her to wash herself. Brush teeth. Possibly get
dressed.
Teach her not to yell and grunt and flail around when she's at a public place. The hell with "oh but its suppressing her stims" Heck, theres things all people in general no matter who you are...that you cant do in public. It's just the way it works.
Assssa...if you give a damn about your 2nd daughter's life you will get off your big ass and work in the things that will make a difference to Abbie's life. Matching colors ain't gonna change 1 thing for her.
And for Gods sake teach her to keep her clothes on. Ya might wanna start that by not allowing her naked in the pool.
Oh, and quit lying. She ain't ridin' the bike. And you know that.
You forgot about how you were always consistent in discipline and there are absolutely zero unfinished projects in your house. And you knew every single thing they did in school every day and worked on it at home every night without fail.Lemme tell ya about my fam.
Both my kids were potty trained at 1 year old and never even wet the bed after that. If they did, they would have gotten up and cleaned the mess themselves. I taught them to prepare their own food at 4 and they took care of the kitchen from then on.
When they did play outside, they used an outdoor shower to get clean before returning inside, then they did their own laundry.
My kids never, ever picked their nose, had a nose bleed or vomited, pooped or peed unless they were on the toilet. I taught them such great self control they were able to master this by toddler hood.
They would never touch themselves, private parts were off limits totally, only touched when wiping or bathing and never any other time.
If their hair was ever messy, they had to go redo it, it must always be neat and pulled back.
They never yelled, cried or screamed. They were perfect little dolls, both in looks and behavior.
Now, once they turned 12, was time to go to work. They mowed lawns, walked dogs, cleaned people's houses and made their own cash. When they turned 15 I made them work at least 20 hours per week somewhere and go to school and make straight A's.
Once they decided to go to college, they had to pay for it themselves. They worked full time and went to school until they finished. Of course they were fully mature grown adults at 18.
I had perfect kids.
I was saying they're better at it in comparison to Asa's methods which are tremendously lacking. Summer is definitely more of what you described but from what I've seen of Becca, she is more firm and sticks to the plan. Part of me wonders if Asa doesn't show that as much because it would make him look even worse than he already does. lolI kind of disagree about Sumer and Becca being effective teachers .. but we will see. I feel like Summer and sometimes Becca treat Abbie like a cute puppy. They let her do what she wants to do..everything is treats, rainbows butterflies, BFFs and she can do no wrong and most likely gets away with everything along with way too much touch and affection. I dont think she will have the structure and consistency she needs.
Abbie needs someone more like Brandi (and that teacher at JSA Sheniqua?). they are calm, respectful, patient.. but dont take any BS. Also Crazy Nanny would probably good as a teacher as well.
If they know how to "work the system", those 2 are NOT giving that particular information out in the vlogs or podcasts.I tried looking it up and it’s extremely confusing. But when A&P talk about it in their vlogs for parents looking for help getting care and funding they always come off as they know the skinny (only skinny they know lol) on how to get every agency to pay top dollar. I mean the lemmings think they are being nice offering help but to me they come off sounding sleazy as like we know how to con every agency out of funds! Rubs hands together and both laugh like evil villains.
To me Becca was always better at controlling Abbie than Summer. Now that she has some education and experience under her belt, plus seeing Abbie at school as well as the other students, her approach may be different.I was saying they're better at it in comparison to Asa's methods which are tremendously lacking. Summer is definitely more of what you described but from what I've seen of Becca, she is more firm and sticks to the plan. Part of me wonders if Asa doesn't show that as much because it would make him look even worse than he already does. lol
Brandi is definitely the most effective out of all of them. Her demeanor really makes a huge difference with Abbie and also Abbie knows that she can't get away with her usual shenanigans. Brandi isn't afraid of Abbie fussing or throwing a tantrum and thus will challenge Abbie when needed and tell her no, redirect her etc when needed. It really sucks that Abbie only sees her once a week, altho since quarantine I don't think she even sees her at all now??