She goes to the doctor regularly, to a school with therapists and has private therapy. She goes to a camp with specialists there (not just buddies). They are out in the community and participate in events with people with autism. They have regular IEP meetings and reporting required to the government. People have different parenting styles and personalities. We are in much less of a position to determine any of that then the actual professionals in her life. There’s a line from have a disagreeing with their lifestyle and actually advocating for them to be in some kind of mandated government or other kind of program.
I am of the opinion that all of these professionals have turned their heads all these years, checked the boxes and reported to the government to get themselves paid. It probably happens a lot in this arena.
I also am of the opinion that these hambeasts have dismissed the advice they received, have not been consistent with anything in 13 years and it's because they are narcissistic know it alls.
And who suffers? Abbie.
While I admit that I am not "qualified" to analyze, I do have an opinion and my opinion is what it is.
I believe the evidence of her "attention seeking behavior" in the vlogs as well as her regression could very well be a result of neglect and inconsistency applying therapies.
It's not their lifestyle that concerns me. As far as advocating for them to be in some kind of government or other kind of program, that's not what I was doing.
I was dreaming up (just thinking out loud) what I thought was an effective way to get compliance for 2 lazy narcissistic parents and get help for Abbie at the same time.
You do a great job advocating for the Massives here in this forum though.
I'm sure they appreciate the support.