So Abbie got ice cream and chipotle for dinner cause her teacher said she did well in school?
Hmm she has takeout and ice-cream so often is it really a treat anymore? can she put together, I did X well today so I get ice-cream? or is just another excuse for pigman and hoglady to stuff themselves with fatty foods
Also nice non descriptive detail of what she did well today. She is probably more likely to respond to praise right after the good behaviour than takeout hours later. Why don't they do what Mrs Brandy did years ago and have golf cart rides/ music/ non food reward as a reward/ break if she completes a task well and without a meltdown/ tantrum. They could take her to the park, she use to love the swing, go to a aquarium as she may like the sensory aspect of the fish tanks. I can think of quite a few nice things they could probably trial as a break/ outing from ' school' that she would enjoy and maybe could learn signs for/ add to the I pad device
She mastered some goals. well that was fast! What were the goals? potty trained, got dressed independently, got her own cups/plates? anything of actual use to her !! or was it, she can open the fridge and point to the food she wants and scoff it super fast.