Isaiah’s head has been removed from his body and edited heavily! Look at those edges and his ears!Hope sweet girl wasn’t mowing down breakfast with her fingers.
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Good gracious almighty. This pic was too much the first time, why regurgitate it Ass Jr.?
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Almost 41 going on 60. She has like 1,254 problems and a skin biopsy ain’t one of ‘em.
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Working her business from Dunkin’…in front of AssMaass’ big, douche boy camera. Of course you are.
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He gots his birth person's altered pointy chin too!!Isaiah’s head has been removed from his body and edited heavily! Look at those edges and his ears!
That breakfast or whatever that is look fing disgusting. It looks like vomit on a plate.Hope sweet girl wasn’t mowing down breakfast with her fingers.
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Good gracious almighty. This pic was too much the first time, why regurgitate it Ass Jr.?
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Almost 41 going on 60. She has like 1,254 problems and a skin biopsy ain’t one of ‘em.
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Working her business from Dunkin’…in front of AssMaass’ big, douche boy camera. Of course you are.
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I agree. From what I've read, I think it has more to to with helping to regulate her sensory input so that she feels calmer and more grounded. Kind of the same idea as using weighted blankets, weighted vests or, if you want to go back really far, why most babies feel more at ease and comforted in a tight swaddle.As far as Abbie's squeeze stim, I know this has been discussed on here before but I think it may be similar to what Temple Grandin created when she was doing her research on cattle. I look at Abbie doing that stim and I see her trying to apply pressure to her body. I see it as a calming activity. She does it very often when she is laying on the couch. I have never thought it was something other than some sort of stim to calm herself. Maybe she plopped herself down on the ground at the fish store due to being over stimulated. Who knows because the asshole's narrative more than likely never aligns with what is really going on on any given vlog. Someone else mentioned the sound of the running water was something she enjoyed hearing and she decided to add to it by doing that stim. Who really knows what is going through that childs mind but hey, she does know how to wave hi and bye
What the hell is that all about???Isaiah’s head has been removed from his body and edited heavily! Look at those edges and his ears!
Doesn't she do the squeezing STIM at home as well? Asshat has filmed her doing it alone on the couch.. and out by the pool...etc.I agree. From what I've read, I think it has more to to with helping to regulate her sensory input so that she feels calmer and more grounded. Kind of the same idea as using weighted blankets, weighted vests or, if you want to go back really far, why most babies feel more at ease and comforted in a tight swaddle.
I see it like you that she is trying to calm herself, and to feel grounded. I feel like it's a response to being in a stressful situation, too much sensory stimulation/sensory input going on, feeling overwhelmed or anxious.
That pic of P with the helmet.. her face is all stretched out of place..and it makes her nose look huge...she needs to calm down with the slimming Apps.Hope sweet girl wasn’t mowing down breakfast with her fingers.
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Almost 41 going on 60. She has like 1,254 problems and a skin biopsy ain’t one of ‘em.
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Working her business from Dunkin’…in front of AssMaass’ big, douche boy camera. Of course you are.
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He also has inherited mommy’s tusks. He either has been gifted her:He gots his birth person's altered pointy chin too!!
Yes, she does. She can still be stressed out and overwhelmed at home, too. She can still be trying to regulate her feelings and sensory input to feel calmer and combat that fight or flight response, anywhere really. Maybe she's stressed out because Asshat and P have been up in her face too much, maybe she hasn't been allowed to do or to have the things she wants at the moment she wants them.Doesn't she do the squeezing STIM at home as well? Asshat has filmed her doing it alone on the couch.. and out by the pool...etc.
Another failed attempt at IG filter usage is my guess.Isaiah’s head has been removed from his body and edited heavily! Look at those edges and his ears!
She looks crazy! Her inside ugly is exaggerating her outside ugly.Doesn't she do the squeezing STIM at home as well? Asshat has filmed her doing it alone on the couch.. and out by the pool...etc.
That pic of P with the helmet.. her face is all stretched out of place..and it makes her nose look huge...she needs to calm down with the slimming Apps.
....in the home where there are barking dogs, a constant camera in her face, her drunk mother weeewwwww-heeeeewwwwing and squealing into her phone, her overbearing father either directing her every move or ignoring her, with no other options for sensory input than scraps of paper or empty plastic bags?Doesn't she do the squeezing STIM at home as well? Asshat has filmed her doing it alone on the couch.. and out by the pool...etc.
We keep trying, but unfortunately it often falls on deaf ears.Perhaps our autism parents here can elaborate further and share your experiences.
a very good movieThe Temple Grandin movie with Claire Danes was fascinating. I'd recommend it to anyone who hasn't seen it.
Completely agree. It is a more sensory regulation and deep pressure squeeze......in the home where there are barking dogs, a constant camera in her face, her drunk mother weeewwwww-heeeeewwwwing and squealing into her phone, her overbearing father either directing her every move or ignoring her, with no other options for sensory input than scraps of paper or empty plastic bags?
Yeah.
She's going to do whatever she can to ground herself in that overwhelming environment.
Someone here correlated Abbie's deep pressure stim with the inappropriate video the Wees posted then deleted, and now people are repeating it as a known fact for some reason.
It's not what she's doing.
She's seeking deep pressure, which is probably one of the most common sensory needs for autistic people, and that's literally the only way she can get her needs met on a regular basis. She doesn't have any sort of weighted blankets or lap pads or body socks or even a small dark space she can curl up in by herself. Her parents refuse to provide anything for her sensory needs so she comforts herself by twisting & tensing up.
We keep trying, but unfortunately it often falls on deaf ears.
I think it's worth saying even if it does fall on some deaf ears. I'm glad that you share your knowledge and experience with us. Thank you.....in the home where there are barking dogs, a constant camera in her face, her drunk mother weeewwwww-heeeeewwwwing and squealing into her phone, her overbearing father either directing her every move or ignoring her, with no other options for sensory input than scraps of paper or empty plastic bags?
Yeah.
She's going to do whatever she can to ground herself in that overwhelming environment.
Someone here correlated Abbie's deep pressure stim with the inappropriate video the Wees posted then deleted, and now people are repeating it as a known fact for some reason.
It's not what she's doing.
She's seeking deep pressure, which is probably one of the most common sensory needs for autistic people, and that's literally the only way she can get her needs met on a regular basis. She doesn't have any sort of weighted blankets or lap pads or body socks or even a small dark space she can curl up in by herself. Her parents refuse to provide anything for her sensory needs so she comforts herself by twisting & tensing up.
We keep trying, but unfortunately it often falls on deaf ears.
Yes, she does. She can still be stressed out and overwhelmed at home, too. She can still be trying to regulate her feelings and sensory input to feel calmer and combat that fight or flight response, anywhere really. Maybe she's stressed out because Asshat and P have been up in her face too much, maybe she hasn't been allowed to do or to have the things she wants at the moment she wants them.
Perhaps our autism parents here can elaborate further and share your experiences.
Completely agree. It is a more sensory regulation and deep pressure squeeze..
I literally hate though that they do not give her a pillow (king size or body pillow), to be able to help this. She doesn’t have to use her whole body to do a squeeze like this.
I will say, out of my 4 kiddos, 2 live deep pressure like this. I never thought about it until recently, as they usually do it in their bedrooms with their pillows, as we have given those two kids pillows and their therapists showed them how to get that deep pressure squeeze with those items.
Then, going back through the last few weeks of pictures, this is my oldest that just turned 18 years old, big Easter gift (as she loves stuffed animals and bunnies).. I realized she was needing that deep pressure sensory regulation, while we were finishing up Easter gifts..
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Personally, I am not doctor, specialists, therapists, counselor.. I am a Mom doing the best that I can for my kids. I literally don’t care if my daughter wants plush bunnies when she is 40. I don’t care if I am buying chewes at 30. I give them what they show interest in and what our therapists say is the best for them.
I don’t have all the medical terminology to back what I say. I just go by what gives my kids their best lives and we see works…
Also, please ignore the huge bruise on her hand. She has been in and out of the hospital for medical issues lately and has IV bruising. She just had a seizure last week and I am in and out of doctor’s appts, while also getting her ready for Senior finals this week.
Completely agree. It is a more sensory regulation and deep pressure squeeze..
I literally hate though that they do not give her a pillow (king size or body pillow), to be able to help this. She doesn’t have to use her whole body to do a squeeze like this.
I will say, out of my 4 kiddos, 2 live deep pressure like this. I never thought about it until recently, as they usually do it in their bedrooms with their pillows, as we have given those two kids pillows and their therapists showed them how to get that deep pressure squeeze with those items.
Then, going back through the last few weeks of pictures, this is my oldest that just turned 18 years old, big Easter gift (as she loves stuffed animals and bunnies).. I realized she was needing that deep pressure sensory regulation, while we were finishing up Easter gifts..
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Personally, I am not doctor, specialists, therapists, counselor.. I am a Mom doing the best that I can for my kids. I literally don’t care if my daughter wants plush bunnies when she is 40. I don’t care if I am buying chewes at 30. I give them what they show interest in and what our therapists say is the best for them.
I don’t have all the medical terminology to back what I say. I just go by what gives my kids their best lives and we see works…
Also, please ignore the huge bruise on her hand. She has been in and out of the hospital for medical issues lately and has IV bruising. She just had a seizure last week and I am in and out of doctor’s appts, while also getting her ready for Senior finals this week.
Would you two say that most Autistic individuals squeeze for the same reasons? Or are there different reasons for that stim? Really all stims? Do all Autists respond in the same manner for the same reasons?Same here. I have a whole cabinet filled with bungee bands, paper he can shred, magazines he can do whatever with, etc. He has a big inflatable ball pit in his room too. His fave thing to do to decompress though is to wrap himself up like a burrito in our comforter and just lay on the bed.
For my two that do need that deep pressure sensory, yes, it is done for the exact same reason. They are needing that regulation and deep sensory need. It is squeezing and sometimes you just cannot squeeze them tight enough or hard enough. Sometimes there is a definite need, as things are overwhelming, things are out of sequence but other times, there isn’t a reason or known reason (it could be just something we overlooked)..Would you two say that most Autistic individuals squeeze for the same reasons? Or are there different reasons for that stim? Really all stims? Do all Autists respond in the same manner for the same reasons?
I think you both are doing a fantastic job. Your willingness and earnest ability to express your challenges and successes as well as answer questions for those of us not in your situation is remarkable. Much respect! 🫶🫶
Thank you. And no, you have never had issues answering questions. I appreciate you!For my two that do need that deep pressure sensory, yes, it is done for the exact same reason. They are needing that regulation and deep sensory need. It is squeezing and sometimes you just cannot squeeze them tight enough or hard enough. Sometimes there is a definite need, as things are overwhelming, things are out of sequence but other times, there isn’t a reason or known reason (it could be just something we overlooked)..
I never have issues answering questions. I just don’t always put things into correct vocabulary because at the end of the day, I have never been one to use it. I always have done a “go with what the child needs,” more than anything else…
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