Your right. Sis has no intelligence or personality. The only interesting thing about her are our comments on her. She thinks having a personality includes being shy, having a baby voice, being a bad texter and trying to say something relatable then giggle
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and all the "relatable" content isn't even an original thought from her. she copies it from other influencers. she says that she only shows us 10% of her life online. girl you live your life at only 10%, there's nothing else to you.
My thoughts exactly lol! Dad doesn’t look poor …. So again, exposing all her own lies then blames us
Yeah you just wouldn’t block out the number of sign off - so weird. You’re right she’s sent it to herself. But then her whole existence is based around her social media and her biggest thing yesterday was going to Dior so it makes sense that she sent herself this message. Omg what a life - and we’re the ones meant to be jealous of herShe sent herself this message and that is so embarrassing for her entire life and soul
1. Customer service do not use iMessage and why would she block out the number?
2. Why did she block out the signature surely it would be “Dior customer service” or something of that effect.
So not only did she fabricate this message, she then fabricated a name she’s quite possibly the most attention desperate individual I’ve ever come across. How boring must your life be to make up messages
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I think her parents were never married and that's why she says she was given to her dad for custody after her mum's passing. If her parents were married or even divorced, her going to her dad would not be a "custody" issue. But it seems that her parents never got married and thus she was under her mum's custody until she passed. After the passing, instead of being placed with her mum's parents (Erim's maternal grandparents), she was placed in the custody of her dad. She seems to not have any contact with her mum's side of the family, so things seem to obviously have been sour between her parent's history. I remember reading somewhere that her mum was from a Muslim family and her dad coming from a Sikh family so both families did not approve of the relationship. I have always wondered if her mum was Bengali as Erim has Bengali features.
Right I’m new to this but I had to speak up on behalf of other people. The case about the troll that got arrested and in prison is true but has over 100 victims involved not just “her”. I’m involved in this case too and I had to message her after she posted that because we had to keep it on the down low, and the fact that she posted it was so annoying considering previously the “incident” had been leaked all around social media and made the victims feel very vulnerable and upset. The incident still isn’t final which is why is has not been published by the Met Police but will be when it is sorted. Just thought I should let you know, thanksRECAP (if I've missed anything, please let me know):
1. Most recently she has jumped on the Smith-Rock slap gate incident by claiming she has alopecia. Irum has alluded to this in the past by claiming that she had a delayed stress response to her mother's death (may her memory be a blessing), whereby Irum saw her eyelashes and hair begin to fall out. More on this can be found in the Wiki (the pink button).
2. Irum has been travelling. She went to Dubai and all she did was take photos, thirst traps and pre-recorded a ton of videos from her balcony.
She also took a holiday to visit family and her 'fans' in Canada. She went to a Raptors game and claimed that Nav Bhatia (Raptors super fan) let her wear his rings. Irum saw a skyscraper and thought she was in New York (because...well it's all the same thing right?). She constantly complained about the 'freezing' sub-zero temperature while wearing skimpy bodycon or backless dresses, sheer tights (or stockings), jeans with holes in them and thin tops, dined at Tim Hortons and raved about their cream cheese bagel. She also frequented a nightclub and kindly informed everyone that she was only there to drink water, because she is a practising Sikh who uses the Evil Eye symbol and taps her head whenever she mentions her family - or anything at all! (We know: it doesn't really make sense to us either).
3. Irum has consistently - and regularly - been addressing these threads and Tattlers through a series of passive-aggressive Instagram Stories. She believes that anyone who says anything against her is a 'hater' and claims that they are 'jealous' of her - much to the amusement of every single person on planet Earth and neighbouring star systems.
4. She is still unable to colour match her foundation and make-up to her actual skin tone, continues to photoshop and edit her photos to the point where she looks like a completely different person (if she were on a list of Missing Persons, it is highly improbable that the authorities would be able to actually find her, let alone recognise her). She is still continuing to distort her body (and dislocate her pelvis) by pretending she has a full, voluptuous Jessica-Rabbit-style body, while body shaming bigger women. However, her PT (Body By Ekam) pours cold water all over these 'sultry' images by showing that Irum has a lean and athletic body shape on her own Instagram profile and Stories.
5. We have extremely strong reasons to believe that she sends messages to herself on Instagram, claiming that they are from followers, relatives and adoring fans. This is because all the messages use the same language, sentence structure, tone of voice and grammatical errors as Irum does whenever she writes or tries to write. The great irony of this is that Irum likes to remind us all of her proudest achievement to date: receiving an A* in GCSE English over a decade ago.
6. She tried to try launch Mother Figures Day in lieu of Mother's Day. This is because Irum believes that Mother's Day excludes people like herself, who sadly grew up without their mother. Her attempted initiative has gone down like a lead balloon: she has been at the receiving end of ridicule here (and in her comments section; before she deletes them) because everyone knows that Mother's Day now recognises all types of mother figures, with major brands asking consumers if they want to receive Mother's Day marketing emails or not. We now have strong reason to believe that Irum is also lying about the date of her mother's sad passing, as she claims that her funeral took place on Mother's Day. However, the date for Mother's Day changes every year, and in the year that her mother passed away, her funeral appears to have taken place *5 days before* Mother's Day, if it followed Islamic funeral rites. But Irum continues to play the world's smallest violin and uses her mother's tragic death as a way to sell more oil and a line of rather ugly-looking tote bags.
7. Irum still has not launched her ground-breaking hair shampoo and conditioner. She believes that it will 'innovate' the hair-washing experience. Her hair oil remains to be untested, has no clinical trials or endorsements from major labs to prove its efficacy. However, it did win a Z-list prize from an unknown, Instagram-fuelled hair product competition where one has to pay to have their product be judged. Irum's sights are now set on having her 'entrepreneur journey' and disastrous hair oil being featured by the likes of Forbes and longs for it to be stocked in Harrods or Selfridges. She is now holding monthly promotions to try and shift her oil.
8. Irum's continued self-hatred and shame of her ethnicity continues. She takes great pride in telling everyone that her grandmother (quelle surprise: there was a woman around when she was growing up) wears English/Western clothing, speaks 'very good' English and that her dad is a 'cool dad; not a regular dad' because he is young (he's just turned 50: bless). Irum also does not know the difference between being 1st generation, 2nd generation or a third culture kid: despite being the child of British-born south Asians. This mindset, coupled with her conscious choice to use lighter foundation and make-up products, fuels Irum's dislike of looking like a south Asian woman or having anything to do with it as a culture and an ethnic background (in the past she has lied about being part Afghan, Iranian and even Brazilian).
9. She regularly sells nearly all of her gifts (some even from her 'friends') and PR items on Depop under aliases. Her most recent username was jas_smiles (be careful: she even blocks people there).
10. Her engagement is dropping. In order to boost her ratings, she now takes photos of her feet, posts thirst traps and does anything and everything to try and be relevant (please see point 1). Irum constantly seeks validation from men and as such creates content catered for the male gaze (in a hyper sexualised manner that undermines her as an empowered businesswoman). The male gaze is a concept in Feminist theory where women in every arena of life are presented as sexual objects for the pleasure of cisgender, heterosexual men.
11. She parties with her dentist.
12. Irum has been given the affectionate nickname of 'Voldi' by her former employees Harneet and Kavita, who have since been thriving and flourishing without her.
13. Irum revealed her admiration for Georgina (Ronaldo's wife) and was delighted to see that they shared the same star sign.
14. Irum held a closed-Zoom call where she tried to try talk about child bereavement. It went as well as was to be expected. A wonderful synopsis of the call can be read here: https://tattle.life/threads/erim-ka...irl-vibes-all-i-do-is-tell-lies.27006/page-34 (by @harm124 )
15. Irum 'treated' her dad on his 50th birthday with a ton of free and gifted items - after all no one likes free stuff more than rich people
16. Irum went to LSE to 'inspire the next generation of female entrepreneurs' with her story and business journey.
Finally. It is a well-known fact that Irum is a compulsive liar. She has told so many that it's hard to keep track of, but here's a section on her most recent tall tales from the last thread!
Irum: liar, liar, pants on fire with hair that looks dire:
(a) Claims to have been 'born hairless' (despite there being substantial evidence that she has had laser hair removal surgery).
(b) Claims to have come from a poor and destitute background, with a period in her life where she was a 'squatter.'
(c) Claims to have only been able to wear one or two Punjabi outfits, due to alleged poverty, when Tattlers (some of whom know her personally) have debunked these lies and said that her father (who has considerable wealth) went above and beyond to make sure that Princess Irum never went without.
(d) Continuing her claim of growing up without *any* women or motherly figures in her life - in spite of her accidentally revealing her godmother and grandmother in photographs.
(e) Claims to have funded her business through tips she alleges to have earned while working in bars and nightclubs, when many Tattlers (and even her financial records) indicate that it is highly likely that her father financially helped her. There's nothing wrong with this: but Irum likes to suggest that she comes from a very poor economic background, when she is not.
(f) Claims to have not had any surgery or cosmetic enhancement (or filler), however her lips, chin, jawline, nose bridge and hairline tell a very different tale!
(g) Claims to keep her kesh (a core component in Sikhism, where followers do not cut their hair for religious reasons), but posted an Instagram Story of her holding her hair and wrote that 'it needs a trim.'
(h) Claims to be a girls' girl - when the truth is that none of her content or presence or mannerisms indicate this. She is notorious for body shaming women, bullying women, belittling/humiliating other women and does not congratulate women (particularly if they are of south Asian descent) on monumental achievements. The evidence for this was her delayed response to Harnaz Kaur Sandhu (Miss Universe 2021), trying to copy Neelam Gill who had been featured in a list of prominent achievers from the Sikh community and not showing any support to Harpreet Kaur (winner of The Apprentice 2022 and first Punjabi-Sikh woman to win it).
(i) Claims to speak (or not) Punjabi. This keeps changing, depending on how Irum feels, but so far we have only seen video evidence of her encouraging her 'fans' to say swear words and make derogatory statements in this language.
(j) Claims to be running a 6-figure business, but this also changes depending on her mood, to being a 7-figure business. The only people who would know the true value of her business are probably her father and accountant! Irum has made a profit, but is it as big as she claims? The plot thickens...
(k) Claims to have alopecia, as well as dandruff.
(l) Claims to have been constantly asked to appear on Love Island as a contestant.
(m) Claims to be modest/dress in a modest manner, but posts thirst traps like there's no tomorrow, in an attempt to boost engagement.
[n] Claims to have gotten a troll arrested and sent to prison - she further claims to have filed a police report against these threads. It's now been over one year since she made this allegation.
That makes more sense. She should have explained that properly. She made it seem like it was her troll only and no one else was a victim. Also, she clearly told insta straight away that he’s been arrested so we can get scared. But, this person must have actually been harassing her and others whilst we are just gossiping. It’s not the same. She just makes herself seem more dumbRight I’m new to this but I had to speak up on behalf of other people. The case about the troll that got arrested and in prison is true but has over 100 victims involved not just “her”. I’m involved in this case too and I had to message her after she posted that because we had to keep it on the down low, and the fact that she posted it was so annoying considering previously the “incident” had been leaked all around social media and made the victims feel very vulnerable and upset. The incident still isn’t final which is why is has not been published by the Met Police but will be when it is sorted. Just thought I should let you know, thanks
Hope you are okay if you was a victim
Yeah definitely used as a scare tactic, thats the reason why most of us kept it quiet vs her shouting it out, really wasn’t okay. Thank you!That makes more sense. She should have explained that properly. She made it seem like it was her troll only and no one else was a victim. Also, she clearly told insta straight away that he’s been arrested so we can get scared. But, this person must have actually been harassing her and others whilst we are just gossiping. It’s not the same. She just makes herself seem more dumb
Hope you are okay if you was a victim
What a weirdo, instead of being sympathetic, she just uses the situation as a scare tactic for her own benefitYeah definitely used as a scare tactic, thats the reason why most of us kept it quiet vs her shouting it out, really wasn’t okay. Thank you!
I think this is the case too, my parents are divorced and my dad got the custody over my mum was the parent who was settled in this country and had money etc because of other circumstances where the court didn’t seem it safe for me to be living with my mother. I don’t see this being the case for Erim and her dad seeing she seems to have a Close relationship with her dad and spends a lot of the time with him so I’m assuming it’s another issue that led to her dad going to court to get custody for both Erim and her brother and this led to her mums family not being involved in her life
Once again, needs to announce to the world she’s giving her free PR to her grandma. Same caption/comment too lol.
@jsecret2937 on the ancestry DNA site (that someone posted earlier) it’s says they’re spouses and then shows a link to the civil registration marriage index, think it’s pretty easy to search up
oh yea I believe they’re married but I also think something within her family must’ve happened for dad to need to get custody for her
Her mum and dad already had full parental rights and thus full control over Erim and her brother. If they were unmarried then Erim would be seen as a child of unmarried parents but that doesn't change the fact that both of her parents (divorced or not) had parental rights and responsibilities towards her. if they were married at the time of her mum's passing, her father was already her guardian so there was no need for him to get custody - she was ALREADY in his care. Unless, Erin's amazing A level English failed her and she just meant that she was JUST in her father's care only, or maybe her mother's family had an interest in Erims custody and wanted her to remain with her maternal side of the fam - that's the only issue with custody I can think of? I'm assuming she just couldn't find the proper terms to describe her situation, or she just used that term to make everyone wonder about her situation and want to know more - I mean it's automatic that if your parents are married and one parent dies, the surviving parent bears all the parental rights/custody?
Yeah not keen mate. Jay shetty don’t get me started. The ultimate narcassist. Built a career off what exactly? Stealing peoples original ideas and quotes. There’s loads on him plagiarising! Please tell me to is he equal to Elon musk, Mandela, Martin Luther king or Gandhi, that he has the audacity to go round life coaching making millions off peoples traumas and struggles, because he went to monk school for two weeks, check his resume. He has dropped out of everything in life college etc., including monk school.Wasteman. He talks down to his fans like “you can only ever be successful if you wake up at 4am” nah mate. That’s called insomnia jay crappy. His wife is okaySorry this is random but I rly like Jay Shetty and Radhi his wife
in the cancer interview erim said her dad had to fight for custody for her and her brother after her mom's passing, which is what makes the whole situation sound a bit odd
at the 3:30 mark she starts to speak about it, her dad didn't have equal rights to erim and her brother when her mom passed
side note, the other two ladies in the campaign had interviews that were 14-15 minutes long while erim's was barely 5 minutes. even when speaking on an issue that is personal to her, she's still not able to be personable so i'm not sure how she still thinks she is making an impact on any young girls
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Sis don’t need to write an auto biography. We’ve done it for herConfused by that vid. What’s the male and female version of getting a waiter’s attention?
Also she’s writing a book??
LMAO that's even worse! What advice could she possibly pass onto grieving children? I wouldn't leave a kitten with IrumLol no not an autobiography
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