Definitely not black and white. You wouldn’t know what to do at first I think. He could be saying “I was in my twenties I was an ejit and I got with this girl who I thought was 18 but it was totally consensual “ etc . You don’t know what he is saying.Exactly. I have been with my husband for 12 years and if he was accused of something like this I’m not sure I could just walk away.
Unfortunately though some women find it hard to make that decision to go when they are in their thirties and worried about not meeting other people. She’s still young tho , 33 or so, good looks good job