I don't like mentioning things when I only see what she posts, but I'm a special needs teacher and a lot of what she's posted about James, I've wondered the same.I’m beginning to wonder if J has unmentioned (and there is absolutely no need to!) additional needs.
Poor sleep, poor speech, driven by routine, no interest in toys. Absolutely nothing wrong if he has, but what a use of her platform could be to inform… or if she has…
Although the speech won't be helped by him having a dummy in his mouth all the time!