I have a cousin who had 4 kids all under 10 she had a big house, dog and cat and her hubby worked nights. Her house was always clean and tidy, clean beds clean kitchen etc. The little ones (1 has Asperger and 2 blood disorders) my cousin had a blood disorder (angio oedema) yet my cousin had those kids so smartly dressed, girls hair always so pretty, she used to go Asda and buy them basic clothes but they looks clean! Dinner was always on table. A good meal 3-4 days and frozen stuff other days. She took them kids somewhere every weekend, cinema/park/zoo and maybe car boot sales, beach free stuff. Btw she done this alone without a car or hubby there 24/7 as he had to work to keep bills paid. The difference between Emma and my cousin is night and day. Those kids looks so bored, so sad, I hate saying this they looks dirty and like they would benefit from a good bath nice clothes and something to do to enjoy themselves. The poor cat has always got crusty sleep around it’s eye too. She’s so bloody filthy and lazy. There’s no excuse for how she lives her life at all. Although having a business and 5 kids seems to be her excuse for everything. Makes me really sad!