Oh stop that now Emma will be giving him a right grilling over dinner with a side order of spite.He is completely under the thumb it's sad. You can see how miserable he is with her and you're right, she does totally suck the life out of him. Once the kids have grown a bit and are less dependant I hope he realises this and goes back to his happy, fun loving self. I used to know him really well and the life he's living now is the total opposite of what he wanted. I know people change, but this wasnt that long ago...