Found it very condescending when she said that it's not healthy in a relationship to expect to live in the same place
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The vast majority of people in relationships want to settle down together and if neither is prepared to commit to being in the same place then most people would break up. It's not unhealthy or "needing" your partner, it's just natural
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the whole point of a relationship is to spend day to day life TOGETHER. Okay maybe do distance for a bit, but after a year or so most couples would move or break up. I think she says all of this but doesn't mean it. She can't wait for the day that James commits to her and asks her to move in.