Elle Darby #46 Cheating Con, Racist all along, 29K followers gone

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They wonā€™t because their life revolves around Instagram! An earlier comment mentioned about how they post every single thing to do with their down to the exterior of their house (plastered in horrible Christmas lights) itā€™s scary. Why would you post pictures of your child and where you live and your fancy cars to random people on the internet?? For validation from kids .. cause letā€™s be honest their target audience is teenagers. Itā€™s actually crazy when you deep it!! I know most influencers do it but you can gain a platform AND remain quite private. Look at Kate Ferdinand, I know sheā€™s a different type of ā€œfamousā€ compared to Elle but she doesnā€™t post pictures of her kids faces, and rightly so.. itā€™s ever so weird. And this is why they wonā€™t just delete Instagram and get on with their lives which is the most sensible thing to do to give them a fighting chance to move on! The only reason this thread exists is because they want to post every single element of their life to the internet for anyone to see and have an opinion on.

Similar to the Molly mae situation when she was apparently robbed (though I highly doubt it). She still posts to this day when sheā€™s out of the country, interior of her house easy to find on the internet, flashing all her expensive gear. Instagram is actually an illness šŸ¤£
I didnā€™t say delete forever. I said to temporarily delete whilst all this is going on. You can do that with the gram, Iā€™ve done it myself. You donā€™t lose followers etc
 
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Other influencers donā€™t give a duck. They have a symbiotic relationship with eachother that keeps them afloat. I know people liking and subscribing keeps them in a ā€˜jobā€™ but at the end of the day they all give eachother what they need, comments, shares etc. theyā€™re all as bad as eachother
 
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I didnā€™t say delete forever. I said to temporarily delete whilst all this is going on. You can do that with the gram, Iā€™ve done it myself. You donā€™t lose followers etc
No I know Iā€™ve done that too I mean they wouldnā€™t do that cause any publicity is good when itā€™s their whole life
 
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I absolutely agree. Iā€™m sure I said things in private to my friends back then that I wouldnā€™t say today but I would have never in a million years posted it so publicly, time and time again. Thatā€™s the biggest issue here. If it was once or twice or maybe just a reference to something it could be different but her level of hatred and intensity is bind blowing
10000% agree. And I think this is what shows it was deeply rooted into who she is. When I was young I also think I wouldā€™ve said some stuff Iā€™d be embarrassed about now (nothing in terms of what we are discussing her, just general teenage bitchy comments lol) but I wouldā€™ve known it was wrong within me and never ever posted it on social media. The fact she so openly shared it online shows she knew no wrong with it, and stood by her words at the time. Thatā€™s the difference.

I do believe though that she may well and truly be a better person now. Yes 16/17 is a young adult and the ā€˜I was youngā€™ card cannot be claimed. It all depends on how she apologises I believe, as to whether we will see if sheā€™s truly changed! (I think some people may be going a bit too far with it all now tho just to put my 20p in)
 
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@/ch33sybean on tik tok has elaborated more on why she thinks con is rude, I think she is genuine and I believe her encounter with conman! Nice to know he isnā€™t bothered about peopleā€™s mental health šŸ¤Ŗ
 
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10000% agree. And I think this is what shows it was deeply rooted into who she is. When I was young I also think I wouldā€™ve said some stuff Iā€™d be embarrassed about now (nothing in terms of what we are discussing her, just general teenage bitchy comments lol) but I wouldā€™ve known it was wrong within me and never ever posted it on social media. The fact she so openly shared it online shows she knew no wrong with it, and stood by her words at the time. Thatā€™s the difference.
Completely agree. If someone I knew was to say these things, theyā€™d have been labelled (rightly) a bully.
 
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Anyone else think she won't release an apology today? I think she'll wait for it all to die down then post another story that expires.
Probably but that's the worst she can do. Re-open the wound when people are starting to forget. She needs to rip off that plaster and do it now whilst it's fresh and THEN hope it all blows over.
 
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I donā€™t follow these people or know much about them but the Saccone-Jolys? Iā€™ve seen people say they had a scandal and came back from it, weā€™re they with Gleam too? Iā€™m interested to know how they dealt with theirs if they are with Gleam, as it could be a nod to how Elle deals with this
I think the SJ's have no management now? could be wrong.
 
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I bet Elle canā€™t believe all the things ā€œinfluencersā€ unfollowing her and the previous love islanders. I think Carys and James done the right thing and I think fair play to them.
 
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I get tht the threads are moving really fast, but if people double checked their info before posting it would really help, would avoid all the back and forth. If you canā€™t be 100% certain about something or properly check followers etc, or if you donā€™t check someone has already posted a screenshot it is making the thread so hard to read through lol

sorry for a slight rant! Just donā€™t want any important info to be missed as itā€™s getting confusing!
 
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Does anyone here actually think sheā€™ll drop below 700k? I only found out about her comments yesterday but I already feel like itā€™s losing traction.

Also Im sure this has been said but Iā€™m disappointed (but not surprised) at the number of people who are dismissing her comments by saying stuff like ā€˜we all made mistakes when we were youngerā€™. As someone who has been on the receiving end of racist comments from a young age, I would argue that people at the age of 14 upwards are VERY much aware of the gravity and hurtfulness of racist/homophobic/etc comments and wouldnt make such comments without any ill intent
 
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Does anyone here actually think sheā€™ll drop below 700k? I only found out about her comments yesterday but I already feel like itā€™s losing traction.
No, but if she loses 50k or even, ideally, 10% of her original following, thatā€™s a massive slap in the face and will be difficult to overcome.
 
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unpopular opinion but Iā€™m actually finding it helpful seeing whoā€™s following/unfollowing/speaking out etc as I want to know and canā€™t also find the time to check insta for this info and keep reading here so thanks from me and my nosey but lazy ass āœŒšŸ’–
I know Jasmine Clough has unfollowed, Iā€™ve never followed Elle but the other day it said 36 mutuals following. Today it says 31. Just hoping more will!! It made me feel really uncomfortable reading them tweets.. I arenā€™t a person of colour but I definitely know everything she said is bang out of order.. I just hope people donā€™t think we are all the same or tar us all with the same brush. Sheā€™s horrible & my heart genuinely goes out to anybody who sheā€™s offended. It gives us a bad name and I wonā€™t lie, growing up I always found that POC were so much more understanding & lovely! Thatā€™s just my take on everything though. When I was that age I was probably watching bloody Tracy Beaker or on Habbo šŸ˜‚
 
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It might lose traction. Influencers all used to rush to make statements and videos about their scandals. Now, it tends to be left to blow over and avoid the initial high pressure emotions, and honestly I see that working frequently. Iā€™m hoping that because elle and con cultivated such a positive image, this will really affect them.
Theyā€™ve forfeited their right to be ā€œinfluencersā€, but that doesnā€™t mean their career will be completely oher
 
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