Neil is on his step ladders again I see! Not being funny but Elaine, you could of easily lost the weight for the holiday mate! No kids, no ties, what in gods name is stopping her? God, me at 30 would of bloody well knuckled down and done it. I really don't want to look like that in a bather when i go away! Shes just stuck in a rut clearly. I want to shake her really I do, shes clearly in denial and needs to sort her life out